Is it good to have sex if your young as long as u use protection?

Question

My friend is too scared to ask, she is 13 and has lost her virginty.

Answer 1

It' probably a bad idea to be having sex at such a young age in the first place.

But, since she has by ALL MEAN USE PROTECTION (condom)
teenage pregnancy is no picnic it's a life changing experience and can be very disruptive.

There are a variety of sexually transmitted diseases (STD) that are going around these days and your friend really wants no part of any of them.

Using simple safe sex techniques can literally be a life saver.

Use a condom, use a condom, USE A CONDOM!

If the boy doesn't want to use one then NO SEX!

Boys can be terrific liars when it comes to this issue i.e. "but i love you baby" "it doesn't feel as good" and so on.

Don't be fooled by any of them!

Use a condom, use a condom, USE A CONDOM!

Answer 2

Having sex at a young age is never a good thing. I am a college freshman this year, and have experienced the sex at a young age thing myself. Nothing bad happened to me, but i was just very lucky. Using protection is good and is absolutely a must. If you can you should do your best to try to talk your friend out of having sex until she is older. Although, if she insists on doing it make absolute sure that she ALWAYS uses latex condoms and do your best to have her get birth control. The pill and the shot i hear are the best. I myself are on the shot and i have had great luck with it. The chances of getting pregnant when you are young are very high, they still are when you are older to, dont get me wrong. Just at 13 years old the last thing you need is a little baby to take care of. Not to mention that there is a hugehugehuge possibility of getting an std or an sti. Either of which can cause life long damage or perhaps kill you if you or your friend was to contract hiv or aids. Just know the risks. Sex is not something to ruin your life over. What you mght think of as innocent fun can be something that could change your life forever. Please just remember that. If you ever want to talk just email me. Lyndzey_j_06@yahoo. I do hope that this works out.

Answer 3

13 is too young. She needs to stop. Having sex a lot is never good if u r that young. There is disease, pregnancy, hurt feelings, heartache. If a person has to ask questions that's a good indication she is not ready. When she is ready--in years to come, she MUST use condoms and birth control. Condoms to prevent disease and the pill to prevent pregnancy because it is the most reliable except abstinence. A great idea would be for her to schedule, or her mother, her first GYN appointment and talk to the doctor about this. The answer to the question is NO.

Answer 4

Absolutely not!! That is way too young to understand exactly what you are doing. There are a lot of emotional things that go with sex, so you should be old enough to know you want to spend your life with someone, then marry him. And you know, if you do wait until you get married, it is the most beautiful thing! And your husband/wife will love you and respect you all the more. It's a shame that people have made a game out of sex.

Answer 5

not necessarily "good" to have sex,but its definitley better to be safe than sorry but tell taht friend of urs i got pregnant using get this, a condom, birth control and contraceptive foam at 15 so just because u used protection doesnt mean ur safe, look at what happend to me! so think before u act and if u have goals that u want to persue than i suggest u wait because the first time could mean ur life is over, but it wasnt the end of the complete world, just any social world u want to have. but its going to mean more if u wait for the person u really want to share something as big of a deal as sex with. im just telling u to wait. or u could end up like me and others out there. i had a full college scholarship to NYU. i was on my way girl, this has made a difference in my life, just wait 15 was bad enough. 13 is just way to young.

Answer 6

No it certainly isn’t that is far to young to be having sex. Nothing good will come of being intimate at such a young age. Most likely she’d end up pregnant before she’s 17. Now I applaud the use of protection that’s smart but no protection is 100%. People who are young I don’t think are honestly ready emotional, their still children and some may not truly be ready physical either.

Answer 7

I wouldn't take the risk. I mean there is no real purpose having sex at such a young age. Only for enjoyment, but i mean a condom isnt gonna guarantee you that it will for sure work. I mean, i would really hold out from having sex, until married or unless you are very very very positive you are going to stay with the person you are going out with currently.

Just dont have sex, its that simple. If you want enjoyment all you can really do is masturbate, even though thats not the same, its still ok i guess.

-Edward

Answer 8

of course not. your friend & you have no business having sex in the first place. if she's already having sex at 13, then your friend might end up becoming a whore before she graduates from high school. the earlier you have sex and the more guys you have sex with increases your chances of STDs, pregnancies, cervical cancer and the emotional consequences can be very bad. guys will talk about you and ruin your reputation - everyone will know.
protection doesn't guarantee anything or always work.

Answer 9

You're growing up in the generation of HIV/AIDS, which there is no cure for. If you can answer yes to these questions, then maybe you're ready to THINK about engaging in sexual intercourse...
1. Am I willing to put my life at risk for this person?
2. Can I accept the fact that I may have to spend the rest of my life seeing this person due to an unplanned pregnancy?
3. Is this person worth contracting any Sexually Transmitted Disease?
4. Do I know that this person is completely free of all Sexually Transmitted Diseases?
5. Am I financially able to take care of myself or my child if I should happen to get pregnant or have to pay for medication if I should contract an STD?

Consider these questions, you're 13. Stay in school.

Answer 10

No it is not good....13 is far too young to have sex. One is not responsible enough at 13 to face all of the consequences of their actions. Your friend needs to grow up first.