i am in a long distance relatinship trying to make it not long distance?

Question

im in a long distance relationship my gf goes to school across the country and i go on the other side im in a college and must switch to uni , is it wrong to want to switch to the same uni she is going to , she wants me to but wants me to also make my own friends there and stuff. we are in love like are ld works really good but im scared my rents and her rents will not accept that im going for her. she i still go and follow my heart?

Answer 1

If her school isn't a better school for your major, don't do it. Personally, I'm still dating my high school bf (almost out of college now) and we've been long distance for years. We go to separate schools. We thought about one of us transferring, but it wouldn't have been a good switch for either of us. If that university wouldn't make you happy on it's own, her presence won't make it better. Think very carefully before you switch.

Answer 2

Join the club, I'm practically in a long distance relationship too. My husband and I barely see each other at all. The thing is if you really love each other and are committed to each other then the relationship can and most likely will work even if you don't live together or see each other every second of ever day. If you're sure that your love is real then you don't have any reason to move closer to her for the relationship to work. If you have any doubts at all, then moving to be with her just so the relationship doesn't end would be a terrible mistake. Such relationships come to an end eventually. i think that if you're considering making the move it should be for other reasons besides your girlfriend.

Answer 3

In your own time, do what you can do. She is your girlfriend but having a long distance relationship isn't so bad. Make time to contact each other on phone rather than online and talk about things and stay connected. It'll be hard not seeing her. But when break comes that's when you get to spend it,spend the time with her. So make it like, you're staying where you are for the goods and then when you work enough you'll get the down time with her. It's more like "work to deserve". You shouldn't look at it in a perspective where you can't see her,you can't stay where you are. You'll still follow your heart knowing that she's always around and you guys are connected somehow in someway.

Answer 4

If your relationship is going to work, it will work regardless of whether or not it's long distance. People always say long distance relationships don't work, but people also say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. Your heart will not always feel the same, so don't make decisions like that by just what your heart says. Remember your parents have wisdom beyond your years...

Answer 5

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Answer 6

There is risk, but without risk life is not a charm. Taking decision is important and that may not be for to repent later.

Answer 7

If you love her then move. I would, love is worth fighting for. Follow your heart, good luck!

Answer 8

yes, you're an adult, take a chance. As long as your education doesn't suffer for it, it shouldn't be a problem.

Answer 9

u should never move or make life changing decisions for someone ur not married to homie

Answer 10

DO IT! I moved from NC to AZ to be with my sweetie.