I am in an on-off long term relationship with a guy I love, and he's my best friend. However, I see him maybe once a year.
I am starting to date this one guy at my university and he's turning into a friend.
And this other guy who I only want to be friends with--and I told him I was dating someone else--wants to go out to dinner with me. I already told him no, but he tried again, telling me he knew that I was dating someone else. I don't think of it as a date, but I'm still iffy as to if he got the message.
If you were me, what would you do about these situations? Would you end all 3, etc.? Cut off communication with 2?
2006-08-29 17:33:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a virgin..to the poster who called me a hooker.
Yes, a virgin who will never give my virginity away because men are worthless.
2006-08-29 17:46:23 · update #1
WHAT YOU NEED TO TO DO IS BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF WITH THE SITUATION OF THE ON AND OFF REALTIONSHIP WITH ONE YOUNG MAN. THEN YOU WILL
NO WHAT TO DO ABOUT THE SECOND ON. THERE IS
NOTHING WRONG WITH FRIENDS AS LONG AS YOU
BOTH KNOW THE REAL DEAL. THE PROBLEM IS THAT
YOU HAVE TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND IF THIS
PERSON IS REALLY GIVING YOU EVERYTHING THAT YOU
NEED.
2006-08-29 17:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to the guy that you love. See if your relationship is going to last or if the two of you are just going to be friends or whatever... Then if you and this guy call it off for good, you can date anyone you want to with no guilt.
AND, I don't think all guys are worthless. Don't hold on to that virginity so tight. What if you decide you want to get married. Are you gonna tell your husband he's worthless?
2006-08-30 01:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a long term relationship with a guy you love, why are you dating other guys. First you need to reevaluate your first relationship, and figure out what love actually means.
2006-08-30 00:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first guy u say u love but yet u will not wait for him. tthat is not love on either ends. the second guy since ur dating him its not wise to keep the other too stringing along. the third guy has no clue. but if he said as friends then treat it as such.
2006-08-30 00:45:40 · answer #4 · answered by jacqucora_turner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If men are so worthless, why do you date them at all?
A once a year visit does not a relationship make.
Stay celebate.
2006-09-02 03:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by answer annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell to the two of them that i got a bf already, and that the most that i could offer is friendship so as not to raise their hopes up.
P.S.
dont end your sentence with a period, hon. eventually, youll give up your virginity - and i really do hope - to your husband, who is worth everything. :)
2006-08-30 03:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by DJ Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know what is right for you--follow your heart.
2006-08-30 00:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by Maybalee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wwwwhhhhhhhhooooooooaaaaaaaaahhhhhhrrrrrrrreeeeeeee!!!!!!!! can we say hooker?
2006-08-30 00:45:24 · answer #8 · answered by lilryno_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋