we had a fight because of my jealousy... he told me that there's nothing to be jealous of and he got angry... i send him text messages saying that if he didn't love me anymore, just tell me and i will let him go... but then i regret the moment that it was being sent.. so i send another message that i can't let him go, because i can't live without him... i'm trying to call him but he's not answering the phone, he send a message saying we'll talk later this evening... i send a message to him again asking if he still love me and he answered yes...
does he really still love me? should i be worried?
2006-08-29 17:24:01 · 8 answers · asked by i really love him 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I don't think you have to worry about anything. A fight is a fight, yes, it's true, but what matters most is the cause of such fight, In your case, it was jealousy. Matured people would have to take that as a sign of deep love on your part for that man.
The mere fact that he still answered your question of whether he still loves you or not is a sure sign that he really does. He could have not answered it too but he wanted you to feel better and assured of his love for you when he answered your message.
Jealousy has been a sure killer of so many relationships that could have survived the tests of time if only it was not a part of their love endeavors. Jealousy is a sign of lack of trust and also of insecurities on the part of the one who is jealous.
Your boyfriend, I believe, does not want arguments relating to jealousy or infidelity, So, if you really love him, refrain yourself from dong things that may draw him apart from you. Give him all your trust and love and you will never go wrong.
2006-08-29 17:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one hes playing phone tag and thats a big no no. when it comes to loving someone. most of the time women are not jealous for nothing. the men normally give you a reason to not trust them. if he fights with you about that then let him go. a man suppose to make sure you have no doubts about him around any woman. so stop and think about it. its not you its him. and if he is in denial which 9 times out of 10 they are. then you can do bad by your self good luck. dont fall for the games. that is what boys play
2006-08-29 17:39:37 · answer #2 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sigh... u had the same thing as I had with my hubby. When we are dating. Well dear girl! U must have confident & trust in this relationship. I think you should give him sometime to cool down. He still reply u rite? If a guy ready want to end this relationship he never reply or maybe change number without u knowing.
2006-08-29 17:44:36 · answer #3 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf is like that to me and it's not good. he puts a lot of stress on me that i don't need and it bothers me even though i love him and would never do anything to hurt him. you need to chill and try to stop worrying about it so much, believe me, you'll both be happier. most likely he still loves you and he would love to make it work with you, you just make it hard because of your jealousy, i know from experience.
2006-08-29 17:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by rlsangel18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah, you need to calm down. Has he ever done anything to make you suspicious of leaving you? If not, then you need to calm down a bit or you will lose him, trust me. Just let him call you, just take a break and relax, trust me it is for the best :)
2006-08-29 17:29:28 · answer #5 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg u need to chill......i say go with ur gut apparently ur showing urself as someone who's insecure without him so he knows ur not going anywhere...see what he has to say and draw conclusions otherwise but this sounds like some h.s. stuff
2006-08-29 17:28:48 · answer #6 · answered by Vee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
teh answer for u is "Be patience". If u truly love him, wait for him till he moves out from ur mind!
2006-08-29 17:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by VIDYANAND A S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until he contacts you. he just wants to be alone to think.
2006-08-29 17:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋