My bf was talking about moving to nc (he has family there he loves and never gets to see), I thought we were both going. Then a week ago he tells me he doesn't love me anymore and hasn't for two years (we've been together for five), we also have been living together for three. So it's been a week that this has all happened, now that he's really not upset, but he's still going. Now it's slipped out that he needs to be apart from stuff going on here in town, and me to figure things out in his life. He also said he thinks he might end up missing me and realize does love me. And if he really does love me he will tell me so? I told him when he left it would be the last time we see eachother because even if he were to call me I wouldn't have money to buy a ticket to go there, or a way to move all the stuff in the apartment somewhere, especially across country. He said he would pay for my plane ticket if that's how things went.
2006-08-29 17:23:20 · 9 answers · asked by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he ends up saying he was wrong and wants me to move there, should I? Or stand my ground and stay here? I really can't move anything from this apartment. And there we would have no apt, but be with his grandmother in her mobile home and two nephews and us. (I do love his grandma)
2006-08-29 17:24:05 · update #1
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2006-08-29 17:30:46 · answer #1 · answered by bsure32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 01:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by holliway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont do it listen to what he first said. he doesnt love you and then hes says hes moving then he loves loves you suddenly again. well think about it in this way if he loved you he wouldnt have said he doesnt anymore. well since you said if he loved you he would tell you so then why did he say he didnt anymore think bout that. and dont think that he has mixed feelings hes just confusing yours
2006-08-29 17:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and move on. This indecisive will take forever to solve. You deserve better
2006-08-29 17:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u must moved to his place , why dont he moved to u're place,
what is love??????????
love isn't any game that once he said he love u ask u to be with him, then said he dont love u n kick u out, then ask u to go back to him.
now is u're turn to kick his butt
ask him to moved back to u, if he really love u , he will do so.....
2006-08-29 17:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE SOUND LIKE HE HAS ISSUES, AND THAT THAT YOU
NEED TO GIVE HIM HIS SPACE TO WORK IT OUT, BUT'
YOU NEED NOT MOVE OUT. IT MAY WORK IT SELF OUT
BUT I WOULD NOT JUST CHANGE MY LIFE FOR SOMEONE
THAT REALLY DOESNT NOT KNOW WHAT HE WANT.
2006-08-29 17:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay where you are & move on! Good luck!
2006-08-29 17:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by PD GAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he already left you, and you are holding on to the hope he will want you. Love yourself and move on with your life.
2006-08-29 17:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
You're better off without him.
2006-08-29 18:12:48 · answer #9 · answered by Olga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋