The one I love pushes me away coz he is afraid he may hurt me as he is rugged and rough. The other is a dreamer who loves me but I see a life of hardship with no matter how tender he is.
2006-08-29 17:19:25 · 7 answers · asked by Jena L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The one I love pushes me away coz he is afraid he may hurt me as he is rugged and rough. He has his life together though and focused. I can have an adult conversation with him on our future. The other is a dreamer with no job prospects (does not scare me) who loves me dearly but I see a life of hardship with him no matter how tender he is. He makes me laugh but has no focus other than dreams. Both men want to marry me, both men once abandoned me through fear when I needed them most. I have forgiven them but am afraid. I love one dearly the other I love and once loved that way. I can only have one. I want only one. But am afraid of going to the one I love least he be wrong or turning to the one who loves me more least I have made a mistake. What do I do?! Please what do I do? They both live abroad and am willing to relocate for them.
2006-08-29 17:44:37 · update #1
Id go with who you love and who loves you! You dont want to get into a relationship and you get beat or verbally abused. You need to be with someone that loves you for you and wants to be with you no matter what they think of themselves. You need someone in you life that knows they will treat you right no matter what happens in the relationship, someone that will always be there for u threw thick an thin.
2006-08-29 17:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there too. its a hard decision. do what you feel comfortable with. faithfulness and honesty goes a long way. if you plan on getting married to one of them-- make a list of your likes and dislikes about both of them-- then pick the best one. commitment needs to be a agreement between both persons. someone that will stand by you thru good times and bad. a friend that will accept you for what you are and is willing to make changes in your life so that you both agree for whats best. love is a feeling that lasts forever. i am sure you will have problems during your life together. learn to accept these times of hardship and call it a learning experience. if this is the right guy-- you will know in a very short time if this is the person you want to be with.go with your feelings and i wish the best for you both
2006-08-30 00:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by james_a_willis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forget where I heard this...probably some lame TV show or movie, but it's always better to have someone who loves you more than you love them. I say go for your second choice. He'll treat you like a princess.
2006-08-30 00:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by lakeviewcubbiegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dose the one you love feel like he will hurt you. And why do you feel you would have a life of hardship with the one who loves you.
2006-08-30 00:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose many
Select three
Love two
Marry one
Now you are in third stage
Okay, Now do you figure out what to do?
2006-08-30 00:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by idsalex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make a movie about it and forget about them both. i bet people would love to watch a movie like that, there's already plenty of them out there
2006-08-30 00:27:03 · answer #6 · answered by rlsangel18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing can compare to the person you love. Go for what you want.
2006-08-30 00:26:07 · answer #7 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋