well i got 1 prob and i need serious answers not stupid stuff plz i give 10 points if i find it useful well ne wayz she is like everything to me and she is juss alike me and we get along great but prob is she has a b/f now she claims she loves him but she claims she loves me too and she isnt tha cheater type and im not going out with her but i am wondering is it worth waiting for well if not i juss need advice on what i should do in my situation
2006-08-29 17:07:09 · 11 answers · asked by skinandbones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't agree w/ naneya. Don't go on "dates" w/ her. Hang out, talk, be friends. Don't get intimate in any way. Don't wait around for her. It could be MOS b/f she breaks up w/ her bf. How long would you be willing to wait for her ? What if she stays w/ her bf ? She's already w/ him & maybe she won't wanna break up w/ him cuz she's already w/ him & doesn't wanna lose what she already has w/ HIM. If you're looking for a rel or to have a lil fun w/ girls, go ahead & date. You may find that you're more compatible w/ some other girl. Maybe she's more compatible w/ her bf. Good luck.
2006-08-29 17:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I get the gist of your post. She has a bf now and claims she loves him and that she loves you too. No. I don't think she's worth waiting for. Move on. You'll find someone else. She'll just play with your head and string you along.
2006-08-30 00:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have any problems with her current bf? Or else I couldn't see a reason for her to act that way. Ask her if they are having problems or something, but don't make yourself completely on the shelf for her waiting, if she does love you, she will come to you. Just keep talking and being friends and maybe the feelings will grow stronger. It is the safest way. And it won't ruin your friendship if it goes bad.
2006-08-30 00:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellz first she got to pick between the guy shes datin and you since she loves you both. plus dont be desperate she might be playin you like a doormat.its like she sayz she loves the other guy then things dont work out so they break up so she goes to you then when the guy wants her back she'll leave you for him.second of all its not always good to wait sometimes its not worth it you could wait all your life for her to come to you when shes not. plus girlz like boyz say alot of thingz so i suggest you get up off your a*s and go find someone worth waitin for (whos single) you might think shes the one but theyre other girlz waitin out there for someone like you. so go look for them if she really loved you more than her boyfriend she would be with you right now not him.
WELL I HOPE YOU FIND THIS ANSWER WORTHWHILE!!!!
2006-08-30 00:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds like you really like her..I would wait because chances are if shes really the one for you, you guys will end up getting together after she dumps her bf.
2006-08-30 00:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Sonya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it`s not worth it waiting for her. You need to let her choose even if letting her decide will hurt both of you.And if she won`t chosse you there are many people around you. And if he choose you you`re lucky. enjoy life
2006-08-30 00:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by m_nicole28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves you she would be with you, move on and show her that you won't wait around for her forever. maybe she'll get the hint and decide who she really wants to be with.
2006-08-30 00:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by rlsangel18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves you, she would be with you. u can be her friend and if things doesn't work out with her bf, go out with her. for the moment be her friend and go on dates...!
2006-08-30 00:16:20 · answer #8 · answered by naneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to choose.... its that simple... shes being selfish say that she loves booth guys.... if se doesnt choose you then you dont want to be with her now do yu.
2006-08-30 00:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by prettybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait exactly, but if you both are single at the same time in the future ask her out.
2006-08-30 00:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by loveorlust06 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋