my boyfriend's elder brother asked me 4 a date with him and he threatend me that if i refuse he'll tell 'bout my and my boyfriend's relationship.
help-what should i do?
should i go for a date with him or i'll let him tell everything to my parents?
2006-08-29 17:05:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions you need to take:
1. Tell your b/f about his elder brother's threat.
2. Any good reasons why you keep your relationship with your b/f from your parents? They will tend to trust you more if you do not hide things from them. So let them know and assure them that you are capable of looking after your integrity. Btw, do not do anything stupid with your b/f that will affect the trust your parents have in you.
3. Ignore your b/f's brother and let him know that he can carry out his threat, as you have nothing to hide.
4. By all means, do not accede to his requests for dates. He's not an honourable person, to resort to threats and blackmail. A date is just the beginning! If you give in to him, there will be more.
2006-08-29 17:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really suks girl =(
First of all, your bf's elder bro is a *****, so let him be one. Warn your patents some crazy guy is probably gonna tell a lie story to them, and that he is just trying to make your life sh!t. Then just dont go out with him. When your parents get around to hearing the stuff from the guy, they wont believe him, and you wont hafta go out with him.
2006-08-30 00:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by prestavalve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him tell your parents. He could be bluffing anyway. If you give to this what will he threaten you with next? Sleeping with him? If he does tell all it means is your parents find out the truth. What is wrong with that?
2006-08-30 00:11:39 · answer #3 · answered by eimmahs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do NOT go out with him, he will make more demands. Hopefully he is bluffing about telling your parents. He sounds desperate. If you start with him you will have to keep doing more to keep him quiet, the more you do ,the more he would have on you. This is blackmail.
2006-08-30 00:14:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tracie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let anyone black mail u, tell your parents before he does, who knows what he wants to do to u if u go out with him.
2006-08-30 00:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by nick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u will get in serious trouble if he tells your parents then go out with both of them but just make sure your current boyfriend doesnt find out
2006-08-30 00:14:02 · answer #6 · answered by lildre2323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell yout parents, just dont tell all indetails about the relationship.
2006-08-30 01:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by extr3mly_good_listener 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell ur bf bout it and then tell ur parents u have a bf. don't go out with him!
2006-08-30 00:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by naneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the SOB black mail you. Tell your boyfriend and have him beat the crap out of his stupid brother.
2006-08-30 00:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF THERE NOTHING TO HIDE TO YOUR PARENTS, THEN TELL HIM NO. IF NOT THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD TELL
FIRST BEFORE HE DOES IF THERE ANYTHING TO TELL.
BUT DONT GIVE IN TO BLACKMAIL IT WILL NEVER END
AND FOR HIM TO DO THAT TO HIS OWN BROTHER IS NOT
GOOD AT ALL.
2006-08-30 00:13:14 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋