I haven't done anything to my boyfriend to make him not trust me, we have been together for about 10 months now and i am about to have his baby in just a couple weeks!! He made me delete all of the guys on my cell phone, msn, yahoo and myspace so he didn't let me talk to most my friends for this whole time we have been together! And now school has just started back and OF COURSE there are gonna be all my friends so YEAH they are gonna talk to me and see how I'm doing and why haven't i talked to them all Summer, and then there is an ex boyfriend of mine that sits right beside me that i CAN NOT STAND!!! because he always makes me feel real bad and stuff for being pregnant at a younge age and stuff and calls me a sl*t and stuff and i was tell my boyfriend how he was getting on my nerves and stuff because he just kept bugging and stuff and all he had to say was ,"well it seems you and your ex had a lot to talk about!" I got so mad... and i know he doesn't trust me but i don't know why!!!!!
2006-08-29 16:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend was either screwed over by a girl in the past or is just a complete jerk. Either way, if he doesn't trust you why are you going to have his baby? And, seriously, you've only been together 10 months and your pregnant? It sounds like you are in high school... this is why people shouldn't have sex in high school. Be friends with whomever you want, tell your boyfriend to deal with it or move on. If he really doesn't trust you he's not worth it.
2006-08-29 16:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by rccola1979 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well he probably doesnt trust you because he is feeling a little guilty and is afraid if he can do it so can you. About the ex boyfriend thing you cannot exspect him to stay calm you are going to be the mother of his child he probably loves you and just doesnt want this other guy making you feel in the smallest way bad.
2006-08-29 23:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by Just Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks that if you sit to talk to your Ex for even just a minute, then you're obviously still intersted. If you can't stand the guy, then why do you still sit beside him or even talk to him. It would make your boyfriend happy if you told your ex to get lost right infront of your boyfriend. I'm sure that'll get you some brownie points.
2006-08-29 23:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by FIONEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump this boy!! I can see that we are already going to be seeing your butt on "The Maury Show". Get the test done, and get rid of him, because he is gonna tell you that he ain't this kid's father. Just let me know when you gonna be on there, so I can set my TIVO. He has done something wrong and he is putting it off on you. Save yourself a lot of future pain, and get yourself a young man who wants to be with you, and you know they are out there around you right now, wish they had been the one to share that child with you.
2006-08-30 00:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by savvyd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M JUST GONE KEEP IT REAL WITH YOU!
*FIRST OF ALL, YOU HAVE ALREADY GIVEN YOUR CURRENT MAN TO MUCH CONTROL OVER YOU BY DELETING NAMES AND NUMBERS OF FRIENDS THAT YOU'VE HAD PRIOR TO HIM EVEN BEING AROUND! THAT IS HAVING TOTAL CONTROL OVER A PERSONS' LIFE-----SEEMS TO ME THAT HE IS TRYING TO ISOLATE YOU FROM YOUR COMFORT ZONE.
DON'T GIVE HIM CONTROL OVER YOU-YOU ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT, I FEEL THAT HE IS TRYING TO TAKE YOUR SANITY FROM YOU BECAUSE IN ACTUALITY HE IS INSECURE WITH HIMSELF AND TRYING TO PASS IT ON YOU AND MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR.
DON'T FALL FOR THE OKEYDOKE.
AS FAR AS YOUR EX-MAN,,HE IS PROBABLY HURT THAT YOU'VE MOVED ON AND DOESN'T KNOW HOW TO HANDLE HIS EMOTIONS LIKE A MATURE PERSON-IGNORE HIM AND DON'T LET HIM GET TO YOU NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS TO YOU-----------YOU KNOW THE IMMATURE THINGS THATS COME FROM HIS MOUTH ISN'T TRUE SO LET IT SIDE OFF YOUR BACK!
CONGRATS AND GOOD LUCK WITH THE BABY!
DO NOT GET DEPRESSED BECAUSE IT AFFECTS NOT JUST YOU EMOTIONALLY BUT THE BABY AS WELL!
2006-08-30 00:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by msbrandnew02 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all he probably had alot of bad relationships with girlz be4 he met you so it would be hard to trust anyone second of all read what you wrote over again cauz its kinda confusing when you keep saying "and stuff." and i no how it is hard to get rid of an ex. they just keep on buggin you. so just try to avoid him.
2006-08-29 23:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋