Men and women couldn't be more different physically, chemically, and psychologically......which often translates into the bedroom. Based on YOUR experience and when talking to your girlfriends what are the 5 biggest mistakes men make in the bedroom. I recently heard my friend Cindy tell me that a lot of men don't know how to take charge. My friend Lisa tells me that her current boyfriend is too eager to get started and sometimes she just wants him to massage and caress her for 15, 30 mins or even an hour. What's been your experience? Please be over 18. :P
2006-08-29 16:43:13 · 5 answers · asked by thedatepro 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) They make you feel like its not who their with but what their gonna get.
2) Not being open enough to tell you what they really want or like
3) Not asking what pleases you. What u want or how u want them to perform it
4) Making you feel like you cant open up and tell them what feels good
5) Not having a conversation about sex before it happens. I feel it can really enhance the first time. Just like first impressions when you meet someone. If you are already in bed with them you have had that first meeting and impression, therefore you know how important it is.
2006-08-29 18:38:41 · answer #1 · answered by aah_nowbenice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mistake #1 - Sleep
Mistake #2 - Rest and watch TV
Mistke # 3 - More Sleep
Mistake #4 - More rest and TV watching
Mistake #5 - Snore
2006-08-29 23:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women expect too much foreplay. It's not really necessary if you know how to get your woman to climax. Alot of women are actually afraid of not climaxing that they want foreplay to get them half the way there. Others just want alot of attention and do little to return the attention. On the other hand, men just want one thing and that's satisfaction. The biggest mistake is not taking charge, because that will just lead to an unsatisfied partner. Men don't usually talk about performance in bed, and it's mostly women who gossip about it.
2006-08-30 00:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by FIONEX 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure about the 5 biggest...but one I've heard from countless friends is not being given enough attention - they go right in to the actual act, and forget about the emotional bonding that takes place beforehand.
2006-08-30 01:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
10 mistakes men make in bed - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBv7kTbJduc
2014-09-29 14:04:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋