Honest answers please???

Question

Me and my bf have been togther for 7 or 8 months and I know I love him. About a month ago we where making out and he tried to finger me. I stoped him and he was ok with it. Then we were talking and he asked if and when I would be ok with it. He hasnt ever presured me to do it but now I think I am ok with it. I see him Friday. I know I am ready is there anything I should do before I see him to better prepare? Like what should I wear? And its odd to ask but should I shave everything? Help! Please dont give me any stupid answers..

Answer 1

Well you are asking a stupid question.. If your not old enough to figure out what do in the simplest of sexual acts than your not old enough to do it little girl

Answer 2

Sweetie, are you old enough for this? It sounds like you're definitely a virgin, so you should know that this probably isn't going to do much for you, unless he's experienced (in which case, you should think again...) If you're absolutely positive that this is something you want, then you need to do whatever makes you feel most comfortable. If you think you'll feel better with less hair, go for it (but use nair or wax, shaving will make you itchy and miserable) and wear what you like.

Please be careful with things like this, especially since you aren't comfortable enough to ask your friends or mother. That's a sign that maybe you aren't as okay with this as you think. When things are right, they generally flow pretty naturally. And for heaven's sake, if you even think of going further, use protection!! But first, think this all over again, okay?

Answer 3

Do not do whatever it is that you feel uncomfortable doing, with your partner. He seems understanding enough to wait till you are ok with it. So do not need to rush into it.
I do not understand what you mean when you say "making out with him". If you are already having sex together, then fingering could be a stimulus b4 the actual intercourse.
If you are not ready for sexual intercourse, then do not go into fingering because you may not be able to control yourself once you start! Beware of the consequences, especially if you are not ready for a deeper relationship! Take your time to find out more about each other.

Answer 4

well, just make sure he knows that your in control. if your really not comfortable with it, dont feel like you have to oblige anyone. its your body. but you say your ready, so its your choice. as far as preparing, i mean, just dont psyche yourself out about this. the more comfortable you are with yourself and the situation, the more pleasurable it will be, wherever friday takes you. doesnt really matter what you wear. im partial to thongs tho, i think every guy is but its ur preference. in my experience, most guys like it shaved, but i cant speak for everybody. generally, its better cuz there isnt so much friction. i shave mine too, and so does my girl, so when we have sex, theres no pain...its totally skin on skin and it feels incredible. ..but its all your preference. just do what you want and dont think too much about it...intimacy is always better when you let things happen. have fun

Answer 5

First of all, make sure you are okay with it. Sexual experiences arent great unless you are ready, but when you are they are unbelievable. Most girls shave. You do not have to shave completely, even trim it. Of coarse shower right before you leave.
I think you should wear a skirt and guide his hand, I sound like a cosmopolitan magazine article, maybe you should pick one of those magazines up.
Good Luck!!!

Answer 6

Your other question said you are 13, so you shouldn't do this yet. That is definatly too young. Especially don't do it since he is 15 according to your other question. If anyone finds out (for example, he brags to his friends, which pretty much will happen at that age and someone overhears) then he would go to jail. It's good that he isn't presuring you.

Answer 7

Does not sound like you really are ready. Give the relationship more time.

To be prepared you have to be smart. It is not what you wear but what he wears, a condom. Don't change for him, be yourself and wear your normal clothes. Shaving is meant for underarms and legs only.

But I would guess you are sixteen or younger. You are not ready or you would not be asking total strangers. IF he won't wait, then show him the door. You have enough time left in life not to rush such an important and personal time.

Answer 8

i agree with most of the answers here. if you're asking questions like this, to me, u're not ready. before u jump into that kind of situation, make sure u know what u're getting into. i would definitely ask him abt std's..and what kind of contraceptive should u agree on using. think safety first...especially for yourself.

for the person who said "give her a break ppl" only fingering...do u really think that once they start doing that...that it will only be that just fingering? she's better off prepared and not be sorry later. btw, i have known someone in my life who contracted aids due to a one night stand. like i said, better be prepared than sorry later.

Answer 9

The guy above who said shower wasn't joking, it's important to be fresh. As for shaving, guys like different things but there are two rules: 1. a clean shave ALWAYS impresses, 2. big and bushy does not.

Answer 10

I'm glad that you've found somebody you're in love with. Remember, only do things that YOU BOTH are comfortable with. Not just him, and not just you. It does take two to tango after all.

For safety's sake, make sure his hands are clean.

If you want to shave, go for it. If not, don't. It's about what you're comfortable with and what you want. It's not his body.

Hope this helps.

Answer 11

Take your chance to be on your right time for yourself and for your bf. IT think there's many things more important than shave.

Be confident about yourself, after all, everything will be easier to your future and forever