We're over 40. I need him to become more responsible in his attitude toward me. Is there anything specific I should say or do?
2006-08-29 16:26:29 · 4 answers · asked by nora22000 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay. I must admit it's a fairly new relationship, but it is hard to take--not being taken seriously.
I mentioned it this evening, just as I posted it here, and he said that he sees it differently. He thinks I've got him wrapped around my little finger!!!
What to do NOW???
2006-08-30 16:42:47 · update #1
Be honest with him.You can't change someone,but I'm sure there's things he'll stop doing if he knows it bothers you.Maybe he is going thrue a mid-life crisis and needs to see a therapist.
2006-08-29 16:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Celebrity girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard most men don't mature until 40+, but for everyone it is different....It really depends on how your significant other feels about responsibility, and be caring to you, and themselves...Also I think you might factor in the time you have been together.
2006-08-29 23:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your S.O. how you feel and set boundaries.Be open about how you feel when your S.O . behaves irresponsibly and what the consequences will be .
2006-08-29 23:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told us.
2006-08-29 23:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by Darko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋