Do you feel uncomfortable being in the same room as them? If so, did you have a rough past? I feel that way and just wanted to know if thats why I'm so f*cked up.
2006-08-29 16:18:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't think youre f-d up.. They are!
I have so much resentment toward so many in my family. So I keep them clear out of my life! My mom had 8 kids! I only keep in touch with my mom, one sister and of course my twin who lives just around the corner.
I can say with honesty that I wouldn't WASTE my money on going to any of the others funeral.
2006-08-30 02:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Min 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have felt this way, even though I love them as a family, but still have been often uncomfortable as you say. I didn't have a rough past and was a spoiled child and really don't have a reason to dislike them. It's just that I find it harder to relate to them than to strangers etc.I only wish I could. So I can't give you a reason why you feel the way you do.
2006-08-29 16:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dale 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, I'm the same way. I think there are more of us than you think. I have a very rough past, and I have had to leave behind quite a few of my toxic family members. I still have a few that are good to me, the rest of my life is full of people that I have chosen. They are my new family. I still feel crazy sometimes, but my life is so much better now.
2006-08-29 17:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by cutiekewterson 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that most of us feel like were 4 years old again when we get home....I make it a policy not to spend more than four days with them and always make sure I have a hotel room or friends place to sleep at. I know lots of people who have the same experience somenhow it seems that our family will always see us as children no matter how old we get
2006-08-29 16:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by mochi.girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lord yes! I'm always uncomfortable around my family, and I hate it. Some of them are cool. Yes, I had a rough life, and its still rough! But ya cant let it control you! :) Im learning that now! Slowly but surely, it all comes together.
2006-08-29 16:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Tweetalette 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hate being around my family, with the exception of my grandparents, and of course, my kids. I think this probably happens to quite a few people who grew up, shall we say "NORMAL," but its obviously more likely if you've had a #&$^%* up past like mine. I wont go into sordid details except to say that there was abuse of all kinds and a bunch of drinking and drugs on my family's part. I obviously cannot say whether its the reason you are so #&$*%@ up, but I have mental health issues too, and part of that is the way I grew up and part of it is truly a chemical imbalance. Good luck
2006-08-29 18:04:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do no longer problem. he's in simple terms you're nephew, he hates you because of the fact perhaps he hates his existence. If he's in simple terms 15 he will learn his methods faster or later he remains youthful and quickly he will say sorry or act greater useful for advantageous. each and every so often it is commonly used to hate a kin member yet no longer at this point, to no longer a youthful 15 twelve months previous nephew. i grow to be afraid of my uncle yet we grew to grow to be closer interior the direction of the years because of the fact i matured and so will you're nephew, all human beings does and his awareness will comprehend that he loves you and you to him. :)
2016-10-01 01:53:11 · answer #7 · answered by mclaurin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah on my dad's side of the family. They're a bunch of drunk potheads. Two of my aunts actually went on Jerry Springer and "fought" over some loser... One aunt ended up flashing the audience. It couldn't have been pretty. This side of the family is so horrible that they argue to the point of fist fights.... at Christmas gatherings. Damn rednecks!
2006-08-29 16:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by atheist_2_u 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Family can be a pain because they remember everything you've ever done and won't hold back a minute of throwing it in your face. I think a person really needs to leave family behind for a time in order to truly discover oneself.
2006-08-29 16:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes , yes and yes it is, the best thing I think to do is get away from them and stay away from them, thats what Im working on. but I must say its a long time comming. because Im in my 40's now and still havent left them behind. I will though. I will I will I will!!!
2006-08-29 16:22:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋