This weekend I went to a party, and I made out with a guy at my university while drunk. He asks for my number, and I had no intention of following through. He calls me the next day and invites me out to dinner, and I respond that I am dating someone else and I want to keep it simple by seeing where it is going...which is true. I am dating someone else.
A couple days later I get a phone call from him, where we talk for say 20 minutes about random things and he invites me out to dinner again. I ask him if he got my message telling him that I was dating someone else, and he says yes. So then I say, okay, fine, I'll go out to eat with you. Then during the conversation, he tells me that I'm the prettiest girl he has seen in a while. Firstly, sweet talkers mean player in my opinion, and secondly, I thought he got the message?
What is he doing? Is he just trying to be friends now?
And what should I do? I enjoy talking to him, and I wouldn't mind being friends....but how?
2006-08-29 16:07:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) The guy I am dating already knows about this. We are not "official."
2) I am a virgin, so don't tell me to grow up in that way, cheers.
3) I did not send mixed messages when I told him while sober that I was dating someone else. How can I be more clear? People do things when they are drunk...it doesn't mean they want to date others.
2006-08-29 16:14:40 · update #1
I DID NOT GO OUT TO DINNER WITH HIM!
I rejected him the first time, yet he calls me again to ask me out.
(He's a friend of a friend btw.)
2006-08-29 16:20:31 · update #2
Go get him for fun. We need that sometimes and so does he.
So...what are you waiting for? He ain't bit you anyway.
2006-08-29 16:12:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im having a real hard time believing you are in college with this question. You should already know the answer to this.
If you are dating someone already, then why the hell did you make out with him and send him the message that you were available to him, not once, not twice, but three times?!
First of all, I suggest you own up to the guy you are seeing about the makeout session with this eager beaver.
Second, STOP sending mixed signals to men if you want them to take you seriously.
Third, STOP drinking if you cant control your behavior.
Grow up..opps...I mean Good Luck!!!!
2006-08-29 23:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, If you are seing someone else obviously that person is not the right one for you.. Just my opinion. Been there done that. Second, any guy that doesnt "GET IT" obviously wont. Just dont answer the phone. Or if you want to be FRIENDS with him, tell him so and if he persists then tell him to leave ya alone..
2006-08-29 23:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by nichols5072@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made out with the guy ... he knows that the fact you're seeing someone else means nothing to you. Then, you go out to dinner with him?
Exactly what message do you expect him to get?
2006-08-29 23:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah! H'e s a controlling type who wants his bottle whenever it tuns out, like a baby. You set the boundaries and he will not respect them. He never siad that he wants to get to know you, only to look at your prettiness and probably get inot more sexual ideas. Forget him, unless you decide you'd like to be abused by this phoney. He;d be on his best bahvior, but after a few months, he';d lace into you. I know the type.
2006-08-29 23:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a guy,and if you like him just be his friend
2006-08-29 23:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop leading him on.
2006-08-29 23:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by xknyghtmayre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋