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this guy i loved broke up wit me 2 days ago and he was ignoring me thinking i would get what he was trying 2 do but i didnt so i kept asking him like hey wats going on and stuff and hes like yo!! its ova leave me alone i was like seriously crying and its like he doesnt even care.... idk wat 2 do like i cant eat or sleep i hate this feeling inside can u ppl please help me like he was sayining all this stuff and he was like yea ill nvr leave you ill luv u 4 ever and ohh how fast his words changed i shoulda listened 2 my friends when they told me 2 leave him the first time but i didnt cause i was 2 in luv and 2 blind 2 see what he was doing 2 me

2006-08-29 15:56:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

He's not worth it. Move on. Find someone he really does like you.

2006-08-29 15:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1 0

My god don't even worry about him i know it's hard i broke up with my bf 4 months ago and he said he'll never leave me and i believed it and what did he do he left me when i needed him the most and i cried so much over him and then i realized if he wasn't there for me then why do i think he'll be there in the future? he's not only you and your friends and family are there for you through everything the greatest love you will ever have is fo yourself and your young guys really do come and go don't think you'll never fall in love again because it will happen and heartbreak hurts but in time you'll get over it i'm sure of it if i can move on from being so in love and i'm finding out being single isn't that bad and it's ok you didn't see what he did he's such an asshole and it will come back to him guys always do this not all guys are like that but most guys love the thrill of hurting a girl or moving on if they think they see something better and he'll realize what he did to you if you think he doesn't regret it he does but just move on with life and live it because it's too short to wonder about him if he's not doing the same about you so be happy and find yourself...i wish you the best of luck

2006-08-29 16:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by USAF1 3 · 0 0

Caitlyn I read your profile and saw that you were 13. Tough age. I have 2 daughters close to your age, 11 & 14. I keep it real with them and I'm going to keep it real with you.
You hooked up with an insensitive jerk who was playing games with your mind. He never loved you. You were disposable to him. By being pitiful, crying, moping around, and basically giving your heart to stomp all over, you are empowering him and you are doing yourself an injustice.
Sometimes you have to demand respect and this is one of those times. I don't mean that you should confront him and break him off something proper. The way to handle a butthead like this is to ignore his sorry behind and act like he doesn't exist. He will wonder how you got over him even if he never tells you that he is wondering.
Right now, he thinks that he has it going on and he probably laughs and brags to his friends about how he has you open like a 24 hour Wal-Mart. You can't take back your past actions toward him but you can determine what your present and future actions toward him will be. Diss that dog! He doesn't deserve your tears!
I'm not saying that when you do this that you will automatically stop hurting, but you will feel a sense of dignity and self-respect. Hold your head up and get back into the swing of things. There are so many other things out there for you and I feel very confident that you will encounter other guys...ones much better for you than him.
Charge this one to the game and make it a learning experience. At your age you may have difficulty doing this but I'm going to tell you anyway. Set boundaries. Ask yourself what is and what is not acceptable when it comes to dealing with boys. When you decide what those things are, be firm about sticking to them and don't be persuaded into forfeiting what you require. Never let a guy demean you with disrespect.
This is NOT the end of the world and you can and WILL get over this. Good luck!

2006-08-31 02:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0 0

I do not know your age but I feel your pain. Getting dumped is the hardest thing. I loved a guy for 4 years and he just up and replaced me. Fast forward, I am now seeing a guy who is a million times more a man than that bum could ever hope to be. I know it hurts so bad right now and I know what a kick it is to your self-esteem but believe me it gets better with time. And I can tell you this, you will meet a better guy and look back and wonder how you put up with that crappy guy. Plus he will get his believe me. Karma is a powerful thing. Time will heal I promice.

2006-08-29 16:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by trueheart_insacramento 1 · 2 0

I'm pretty sure he left for another girl. Guys do that. They say they love you but they don't. They only say that so they can get what they want, and after they're done using you, they leave. I wouldn't be suprise if he was cheating on you while you to were going out. Don't try to find out why, it's only going to hurt you even more. Sometimes not knowing is better than knowing.

2006-08-29 16:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Christine S 2 · 2 0

I believe that YOU get over being helpless. Who wants that?
well, now you have a better understanding of, who your good friends are... that is better than I had for a big portion of my life....

Now, most of my friends are women and I listen to them when they, not just 1 or 2 of them, do not like someone that I like. That does help keep the fluff away from me. Also, that would have kept my ex wife away of 20+ year too (which I now believe would have been good for me). That kept me away from her IF I'd looked at their actions, then no one said anything they just slowly left.

I believe in another 'friend thing' is more true tho. "If I like her but I don't like her friends..." I believe most people choose someone very similar to themselves as friends. If I see somein' that I don't like in "her friends" but not in her, then I believe that I'm havin' a 'stupid' attack. I can't help being in love or infatuated while I'm "stupid". However, this does cause me look for it harder in 'her' but I usually cannot see it until i am 'over' her and not always then.

2006-08-30 02:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by DM 4 · 0 0

I went through this kind of thing many years ago. All you can do is grieve and stay strong in the meantime, go on with your life; you will find someone better, even if it takes a while for your heart to heal.

2006-08-29 16:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by pegasus_1174 5 · 2 0

Ignore him. If he cared about you at all, He would Not have hurt you. He feeds on this kind of crap. Do not let him take over you!!! Be kind to him if you speek to him. Otherwise, Ignore it. It is people like him that will crush the world.. Take Hold Girl!! Be the BOSS,,, You will have guys flocking to you!!!

2006-08-29 16:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie L 1 · 1 0

You need to just leave him alone. It's going to hurt for awhile but it will get better. You will heal a lot faster if you have no communication with him. Talk to your friends and keep busy.

2006-08-29 16:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 2 0

If he changed his mind after a few days don't give in because you makin it seem like in his mind that he can have you any time he wants even if he just wants to have sex thats a no no cause your emotions are going to be invovled if you really love him let him go!!!!!!!!

2006-08-29 16:03:46 · answer #10 · answered by jelly b 1 · 1 0

MOVE ON! if you let your ex see you cry, then he's only gonna be meaner and he's gonna think your pathetic. So move on find another guy. Put your head up high and let him know that your over him.

2006-08-29 16:05:53 · answer #11 · answered by jennthedork 2 · 0 0

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