2006-08-29 15:43:47 · 12 answers · asked by baby sash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is hard to answer without knowing who you are. But I will give it a shot. My suggestion is to surround yourself with people that share the same hobbies, interests, morals, values and standards. This sends a message in and of itself. Also, be sure to treat others the way you like to be treated. Make sure your actions and words match , so there is no guessing what type of person you are.
It isnt that hard to attract the same type of people as we are to us.
Do things that showcase the characteristics you want guys to notice. Make these things take center stage in your life. It will please you and help you grow as well as draw people who appreciate these things. Good luck.
2006-08-29 15:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know people say be yourself, and that's exactly correct... but not all that easy sometimes.
Start a little simpler. Why does it matter what a guys thinks of you? Whose opinion matters the most? Who has to look in the mirror and live with themself everyday.... You do.
The best advice I've ever heard is to take care of yourself, stop focusing on what other people must think. When you start to focus on yourself, other people will too - and the more you know yourself and live that - the more that person comes out ---- naturally.
A guy would have to be blind not to see you for who you are if the real you is out there for the whole world to see, and if that's EXACTLY the way you like it.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 22:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by thoughtfulwind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want guys to notice you, you have to be more outgoing. When you're in class or anyone and there's a discussion going on, voice your oppinion. You can try to dress more appealing, not sluty, but something that shows who you are that can cause guys turning heads. Put a smile on your face everywhere you go, even if you're sad. Be involved with activities. There's plenty of ways. You just have to have to motifs to do so.
2006-08-29 22:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Christine S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. have you heard the saying women are like apples? well it's true. the best apples are at the top of the tree and a male chooses the bad apples at the bottem. and the right male will go up the tree to the good ones. just wait for the right guy. but being yourself will help heeps. :)
2006-08-29 22:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I agree with the first person who answered. Be yourself and do not try to be something your not. If you try to be something your not, then your not being truthful to the boy or yourself. If any boy or man (not sure your age) does not like you for yourself then they are not worth having around.
2006-08-29 22:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by nichols5072@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear clothing that doesn't expose your body a whole lot, cause if you do, you're just gonna attract the guys that don't care about who you are.
2006-08-29 22:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by absens_heros 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. Any guy should like u for who u are not for who u pretend to be.
2006-08-29 22:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by littleblueflower 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be you. They'll notice for sure, and like it a lot.
2006-08-29 22:47:13 · answer #8 · answered by 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Especially if you are young...guys are just...hormonal and they only think with their penis and not with their brain...granted they do that a lot anyways even as they get older...
2006-08-29 22:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by orange_et_manuges 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to be who you are. They will come around.
2006-08-29 22:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋