Do guys like they're girls to make them wait on "IT" or just like them to give it to them right away and not wait??? I want it to be special and in the right timing and not just feel like I have to!! lol Im holding out on him he says he'll wait on me as long as I need I think he's soooo sweet for doing that for me cause I don't want to feel rushed but he says when I hold out on him it makes him hott lol makes him want me more!!!! and doesn't want another girl he only wants me!!! am I doing the right thing and do guys really like that???
2006-08-29 15:25:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, guys like sex, so why would they like not having it? If a girl was going out of her way to deprive me I'd just move on to the next girl.
Second, you should be having sex (or not having sex) for your own reasons, not for what some guy may or may not think.
2006-08-29 15:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Paul J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that your too young to be thinking such thoughts. Hold out until you get married. If he is still with you, then you know he was truly serious and it wasn't just over active hormones and puppy love. The greatest thing you can give to your true significant other is your virginity. Obviously you'll want to be absolutely certain that he is the right one because once you give it away, there's no getting it back. Make him wait. Who ever you marry will be unbelievably appreciative that you held out for him. The perfect life partner.
2006-08-29 15:32:34 · answer #2 · answered by rms21560 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you teasing? Or do you have a reason for waiting. I think you should wait until marriage. Then it is the most special gift to give your Husband. Your body...untouched...saved just for him...
Guys only want one thing. It makes them hot to be strung along, becasue it's like a conquest. He keeps looking forward to it. Once he has it, he'll not want it as much anymore. You'll see. Cause you'll probably not take my advice. Then 10 years from now you'll wish you had.
2006-08-29 15:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited on my fiance for 5 months before we did anything. I beleive that it is ok to wait on it, but I will say if your planning on being with him for a long time before doing "IT" than you will potentially loose him due to the fact that you maybe think its a game. I don't believe that you should feel rushed, but I also think that if a girl waits to long she does have the chance of him giving up on her.
Personally if your not ready don't do it, you will regret it if so.
2006-08-29 15:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by dn69141 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you to wait. But you said that you wanted it to be special and the right timing so wait. And by him saying that holding out makes him want you more, seems like he is trying to pressure you in to it, which is being disrespectful to you and your feelings so it may not be worth doing " it" with this guy to begin with. IMHO though
2006-08-29 15:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look sugar he can tell u what u want to hear cause thats just the way it is but i know that some guy don't like to wait who know u might have u one that will wait but soon or later if you don't give it up he will get it from some where esle then you will be *** out i just sayin don't believe every thang just look 4 sign you will tell when he don't want to wait NO MORE take it from some body that been there done that
2006-08-29 15:37:59 · answer #6 · answered by Teiana S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really cares about you and that is so important in a relationship, hold out as long as you can if he really means what he says then he'll wait longer, and guys don't want a slut, they want a Conservative girl ya know?
2006-08-29 15:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by sam I am 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men hate waiting. That's a fact. Anyone who says otherwise is either: a) a female; b) gay; c) a man who's just trying to convince you to give him the goods right away.
2006-08-29 15:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by mcclean5552 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us guys are impatient and horny, so of course, we want to get some as soon as possible...
but you only get one first time together, so you might as well make it count, and hold out to the wedding night.
Trust me, he'll respect you more for it in the long run.
2006-08-29 15:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by ye_river_xiv 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THANK YOU! i agree with what you said (about wanting it to be a special time)!
but...if you are a girl who is "saving herself for marriage", in this day and age, you'll be uber lucky if your guy is as sweet as you say he is!
well, if you still want to "share " one another , there are plenty of "non-intercourse" ways of going... check out a Planned Parenthood or something, they might have pamphlets on those things...
i for one, would want to make love to my girlfriend (when i find the right maiden), but not RIGHT away, no.... like you said....it has to mean something. i mean, if kissin leads to other things, and those other things are on her initiative, then she is (i would be led to believe, anyway) OK, and wanteing to share herself with you. a Lady is not just "something to stick it in", i'm sorry. that way of thinking is not cool. it's basic respect and mutual love for one another, people, c'mon!...treat others as you would like to be treated... hope this helps :)
2006-08-29 15:46:43 · answer #10 · answered by j-man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋