David he is so hot and cute!! We have always been friends but i wont to go out with him but there is this one other girl and she hates me and she always go out with him and im afriad he will say no and that one girl will found out and i would really be in for it!! so what should i do? HLP ME PLZ!!
2006-08-29 15:21:52 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Olivia♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No there not going out right now
2006-08-29 15:26:29 · update #1
Ok Reckless, you are in the classic situation here. What you need is to find a way to do something quietly dazzling to get his attention away from her and onto you. Now what can that be? Hmmmm. OK, try this: find out some of the things he really likes (foods, sports, music, etc). Then think of a tiny thing you could give him from one of those categories (for example, if he loves P-nut M&Ms, buy him a little bag). Give him this tiny thing and tell him you know he likes them. When he says ("how do you know that?")...and he will, trust me....just laugh and say "Oh, I know a lot about you that you don't know about yourself". That will get him to wondering, and when he tries to talk to you about it, just say you can't talk about it now, maybe later. That will get him to ask you out and the rest, girlfriend, is up to you! Whew. I'm tired. Your love life is wearing me out!!
2006-08-29 15:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you and David are friends right? Why would he decline to go out with you for no particular reason at all? Second, does he even like the other girl or is he simply enjoying her company? Take some courage and do ask him out.. Say that you wanted to see a film or something and you are looking for a companion. That way he cannot suspect anything fishy..
If he did went out with you, ask him if he likes the other girl.. Be prepared for his answer and simply accept whatever his decision is.. If he's not interested, lucky you then ask him if there's a particular girl he's interested in! Make sure that this would appear like a casual conversation.
Hang out with him more. If you really wanted to tell him what you feel but is not able to voice it out, then do it through writing.. Write a letter, email him or YM him.. Add that you will accept whatever his decision is and say that you still wanted to be his friend.. Sounds corny? It works..
2006-08-29 22:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, here is the help I am willing to give you, and I am sure it is not what you want or expect. Stop skipping your spelling and grammar classes. Focus on your schooling and not on boys that don't know you exist. Use that wonderful thing called a Spell Check and stop asking silly little girly questions!
2006-08-29 22:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by flyingbumblebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your already friends, and you really like him, why let someone step in the way of what you want, you might pass up this opportunity and regret it for the rest of your life because you were afraid of someone else.
2006-08-29 22:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by dn69141 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until a later time when you're both more mature and the issue of some other girl isn't an issue anymore
2006-08-29 22:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by techbankguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont judge what you do by what you think other people would think about it. Do what you want to do, so go ahead and ask him out. if she finds out dont worry about what she says. tell her "I am just living my life and doing what I want to do and you have no right to do anything about it" however if she is his boyfriend just explain that you didnt know that.
hope this helps
2006-08-29 22:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soooooooooo, let me get this straight. You REALLY like this guy BUT you let another girl SCARE you? Then you shouldn't be asking him out! OR get some balls (excuse me) and go forward and ASK HIM!!!!!
2006-08-29 22:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. Sure that girl will hate you, but you got what you wanted right?
2006-08-29 22:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that his girlfriend? if so NOT A GOOD IDEA to ask him out... But if that isn't his girlfriend ask him if he feels the same way... He might! you never know until you ask! Good luck hun!
2006-08-29 22:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by [-*ashley*-] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whisper it in his ear. Make him promise he won't tell that girl. Or try to be friends with that girl.
2006-08-29 22:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋