ok i met this really cute girl in my sophmore year. we are both afghans. (dont say nothing ignorant or i will report you). we had biology together and we barely talked. honestly i wasnt really attracted to her. she was a NICE girl. i dont think that she even dated any guys at all. my junoir year past by with only seeing a few appreances of her. now im entering my senoir year at high school. im looking for a nice girl to settle down with and hopefully go to the same college as her. and i just saw her recently at a store and i remembered how nice she was. should i start talking to her and get with her if i get any classes with her? what should i do/say if i dont have any classes with her? im reeally attratced to her now. plus im not sure but i think im falling for her. plz read this twice. most people understand either the first or second half and only answer to thier understanding.
2006-08-29 15:17:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am really glad you are trying to give love a chance. First, I think you should begin talking to her whether you have classes together or not. Now, if you don't have classes with her, you should tell her what you wrote here: "You feel you are falling for her" or better yet, tell her you like her and you should maybe exchange emails and phone numbers. I really do think you are falling for her though, its sweet.
2006-08-29 15:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing ventured, nothing gained is the saying. So next time you run into her try to strike up a conversation and then take it from there. The worst that can happen is for her to say no I'm not interested or that she is seeing someone and then at least you will have an answer that you can move on from. I wouldn't plan on taking classes specifically just so you can see her as that could be detrimental to your future. So just take the classes you were originally going to and approach her in a friendly manner and see what happens. If she isn't the one well there is a whole high school full of girls that might be!
2006-08-29 15:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find a way to talk to her. If she is not in your classes maybe you see her in the hall or sometime during the day just go up to her and say hi. Tell her how you had a class before in your sophmore year, Ask her how she has been doing and ask her about her classes .. If you are really attracted to her like you say you are talk to her like you are actually interested in what she is doing and how she is doing and see where things go from there. If things go well and you both seem to connect ask her out. If you are looking for long term take it slow and let a solid foundation form between the two of you
2006-08-29 15:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i think you should talk to her, if you have any classes with her or not. Maybe just walk up tw her and talk about school or something, and ask if she would like to go see a movie, or to a school football game, or another group activity, that will make her feel a little better. For going to the same college as her, i would wait, maybe transfer after you got to know the girl a little bit better, do you really want to change your whole life plans for a girl that you really don't even know if she like you? I really hope I could help you! Good Luck!
2006-08-29 15:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her even if I didnt have any classes with her. If you are still thinking of her after a couple of years, I would say go for it. I will say from experience, dont go to the same college her just because she is going there. Make sure that it is the right college for you and can give you what you want. I wish you all the luck in the world. Hopefully things will work out for you & her.
2006-08-29 15:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Southern Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to start a casual conversation with her next time you meet. Find out what her interests are and go from there. Is there a sewnior dance coming up? Ask her. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. Try not to get too serious, though, you are still young and need to pick the college of YOUR choice for your career goals.
2006-08-29 15:21:13 · answer #6 · answered by *Larry P. he's for me* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that if she has been brought up in a religious family, trying to approach her directly will only upset her. If you're really serious about getting to know her and don't want to just use her, then approach her through her family. Maybe you can find a relative of yours that knows her family, that could make the first introductions? You KNOW how it's supposed to be done. Treat her family and her with respect and deference. You'll certainly get farther than if you try to approach her on your own.
2006-08-29 15:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i see your problem. you see, the thing is, this is one girl, that you dont knwo if you'll be with forever. your future is more important, so you cant let this one girl decide what clases you'll take, and what college you'll go to, etc. trust me, i was going to go to the same high schol as my ex boyfriend, because i wanted to see him, and we broke up...i was so glad i didnt go to that high school though! so dont make that mistake. now, for the other part...well you're not falling for her only, but yuo're living in your own illusions about her. like, you think of you two being together and it makes you feel awesome, so you think you are falling for her, but in reality, its your own imagination. maybe she doesnt think the same way about you..mayeb she does...what you should do is definitely give it a chance, but dont raise your hopes too much about it, and see if you like the real her, and see if she likes you, and how you both feel, but at the same time, dont take decisions about your future just because of her, its not worth it, unless you guys plan to marry and spend your whole lives toegther. thats a whole different story. good luck and i hope you have a good life!
2006-08-29 15:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by all means start talking to her. With the time that has passed she may not be the same as you remembered, especially since you are ready to settle down. Remember-you don't really know her- you said yourself that you barely talked, weren't attracted to her, but now you are.
Get to know her-I think that you just have an infatuaation or romantic ideal right now but that could change-you need to get to know her.
2006-08-29 15:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by heatherhedyjon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't seem to see any problem there.. If you wanted to know her more or ask her out then do so.. Who knows? She may have the same feeling for you..
Get to know her more and be honest with your feelings.. Tell her you do like her but don't expect too much.. Remember, she can accept or reject you.. It's a 50-50 chance.. Don't let this opportunity go to waste..
Good luck then ^_^ I'm rooting for you all the way =)
2006-08-29 15:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋