set me straight.I cant accept a job because I fear running into my X.I melt when I see him and I know He is NOT good for me.I am 46 and I know better.Tried to get "it" with someone else after a 2 year x out.I have tried voodoo voodont and everything else.What up with this ?
2006-08-29 15:09:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to relax. Your ex is ruining your life. You have to be brave and realize that then only thing that can ever be expected of us is to not run away. Be brave and don't let him bother you.
It is up to you to free yourself from the pain. None else can help you. Face your fears. And good luck. If you need more help, I'm available. We are all rooting for you.
2006-08-29 15:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your instinct is telling you that this guy is poison but your head is saying "maybe". Well instinct is a very powerful gift so use it wisely when making your own decision. No one, especially strangers can direct you one way or the other on this one. Lots of times we already have in our mind what we want to hear, so we just keep asking till we get the answer we want to hear. Example, 99 people will say to stay away and 1 person will say go for it. Well sad fact of life is that 99 people can't be wrong and 1 person right on the mark. Tread carefully.
2006-08-29 22:16:14 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense intended but you should be mature enough to be able to accept a job and just avoid the man. To not seems preposterous. My best advice is to find a new man to be interested in. Once you find someone else, the memories of him should fade and seem like a bad dream.
2006-08-29 22:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by daguy28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol you still love him why don't you two try and work things out again maybe you to we're destin to be together cause your still in puppy love girl!!! You melt when you see him YOU LOVE HIM!!!!!!! lol it's very common I know what you mean cause I had a relationship simular to this one!!! DOn't try getting it from sumbody else (try getting it from him) lol you two are surley mature enuff to work things out resonably right????? YUr not kids anymore but you can still act like one right??? Get him back and show him you two we're meant for eachother!!! Your not messed up in the head I swear!!!! It's just loveeeeee!!!!:) it can be a beautiful and discussting thing but mostly if it's true love it's beautiful hope I've helped and made a bit of scence!!!!:) good luck and God Bless!!
2006-08-29 22:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hy gay dudes steevie and davey here hons, okay were your so called trailer park x---- works are there difrent shifts there?? what shift does he wiork?? if theres difrent shifts there take a nother shift at that place! and grow up for gods sake move on downe that highway your 46 years old forget about the trailer park-X!! and you tried too do the big bang with another guy there hons?? as far as the vodoo goes the trailer park huby is stil wandering around torturing you righjt?/ you excuse us thou but you sound like you are stil a tease too your old huby you still ove him dont him hons want him?? only you can anwser that if you anted too stay away find another job like at burger king or something!! get over him hit the highway its oveer find another job here forget the vodo crap, and you are messed up in the head hons!! or just move out of state get away from this!! hot the highway pack suitcase leave!!
2006-08-29 22:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well take the job and get yourself a real man, quit pining for someone who is not good for you!
Treat yourself better than that and give up the voodoo, chocolate taste a lot better... LoL.....
Seriously you know the ending with him get a new story!
Good luck!
2006-08-29 22:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to the great spirit Gozmoon Oboul Da vid
never let anyone control your mind as if it sounds like your letting this guy do.if you know he is not good for you it should be easy to see him out somewhere so you can just laugh to yourself and say, what a loser!
2006-08-29 22:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when you know something or someone is bad for you you want it more. I can't explain it but some men just have that quality about them that makes them irrisitable....stay away though - you'll regret it.
2006-08-29 22:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by mommy_2_little_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like you got a bit of the semen on the brain
2006-08-29 22:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* looks like you are going to be unemployed for awhile.... You need to direct your energy into something else.
2006-08-29 22:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋