seriously I really like a guy that last year said that i am hot and now he just sits there and talks to me. He will flirt but he flirts with a lot of girls. last year i turned him down but he had a GREAT summer on vacation in california and now he is HOTT!* But i am soooo shy i can't talk to him unless he talks to me first. HELP I NEED ADVICE!?
2006-08-29 14:49:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
act natural, be sweet and sexy at the same time
play hard to get (just a little bit)
most important...if he asks you
ACCEPT!
2006-08-29 14:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by JB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
One day he said u were hot , now u think he is...so make your move, girl. Forget about being shy or whatever. It's never too late and in this case there's more to gain than lose... So what if he flirts with many girls? U don't want him to be the love of your life, do u? It just could be fun...
2006-08-29 21:59:07 · answer #2 · answered by noone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You turned him down remember? He took that as your final answer and you DO look at physical aspects first.. You rejected him in the first place so don't even think that he'll go back to you to tell you that he still like you.. Flirting with other girls other than you only shows that he is still looking for that certain someone..
If you really DO like him, then take courage to tell him and be done with it.. Of course, be prepared when he bring the past up of you turning him down.. And be prepared if ever he say he is not interested in you anymore..
Good luck then..
2006-08-29 21:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want to talk to a flirt ... he does that just to satisfy himself...i dnt think he really loves u ..if he did he wudnt have gone after the other girls..... And evn wen u turned him down he felt ok and comfortable with dat and so he doesnt seriously care abt wat he means to u or u to him..... I wud rather say stay away from him....and for sure there will be a Mr. Right on his way ..... soo wait !
2006-08-29 21:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Daniella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST talk to him first. That tells him you want him, which you do. My man is sooooo hot, I never thought he would like me at all but once I gave it a good try he went for it. After all this time I've found out from his brother's women that all the girls he dated were ones that went after him. That surprised me cuz he's soooo sexy, but hey I lucked out I guess.
2006-08-29 21:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait-did you turn him down cuz he flirts with other girls,or cuz he wasn't hot before?
and ask him if you 2 can hang out,and image him as a close guy friend,that will help you get over the shyness:)
good luck!
2006-08-29 21:54:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start talking to him, and tell him how u feel, he might feel the same way back, just dont flirt all over him i heard guys dont like that, i hope i can help
2006-08-30 11:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so shallow. If you didnt like him befor, let somebody worthy have him. Just because he is "hotter" now, doesn't mean you deserve him after you shot him down once.
2006-08-29 21:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!! Just start a conversation, like if u see him and he's in 1 of ur classes or class start out like if sumthing funny happened or if u had a hard test or sumthing, "hey wasn't that funny?" or "why did she have to give that test to us today!!" or like "[[wat ever his name is]] u look really different! i bet ya had a good summer,"
sumthing like that
2006-08-29 21:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Hot'n'Cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, if you already have talked to him this year.If you do he might think you like him. Just flirt.
2006-08-29 21:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait talk i like it when girls talk to me cause im too shy to talk 2 them so mabey hes like me
2006-08-29 21:53:34 · answer #11 · answered by unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋