i know she enjoys it but later on ..most of the times she feels down like she regrets it or something..i donno wat to do..she even tells me that she enjoys it 'during' but regrets after that i donno y.. can u help in any way?? thx
2006-08-29 14:44:58 · 17 answers · asked by Ali J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she's fighting over her values coz she knows it's wrong and she's havin a hard time to balance herself.. she likes the touching and she doesnt want the idea of havin sex coz her inner values is against it.. and she's not ready yet that's why.. be patient, try to understand her, be respectful to her feelings if she say stop then stop.. i know it's hard to be like that most esp when you're really that horny but once you shew her that you understand and that you're not mad about her reaction then im 100% sure that she'll love you more and that she'll show it to you in 100 ways you didnt even know existed!!
2006-08-29 14:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like shes respect the limits just to be..a lady,to have principles.Which is fine.Id never test the waters to the point of invalidateing her moral etc. BUT! if she enjoy it so much and regrets whatever she regrets she obviously thinks about the sex,and wishes she didnt restict you two so much.
Tell her our willing if she ever changes her mind and your fine.
2006-08-29 21:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she gave into her flesh, knows it later on, and feels dirty. Next time, just don't do it no matter what your hormones say. If you really care about her, just ignore this fleshy desire. If she insists, tell her that you know she will feel guilty afterwards and you don't like it when she gets that way. Most likely she'll want you to do something but she will also eventually learn.
2006-08-29 21:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you 2. If she regrets it after then don't do it at all. Everyone enjoys it during but what yoiu have to live with is the after
2006-08-29 21:49:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels good to her physically, but guilty mentally. I understand your confusion, you both should sit down and you should bring to her attention that if she feels too guilty about it then you don't have to do it all!! But if she likes it that much physically then she has to find a way to be comfortable with touching and not feel guilty about it.
2006-08-29 21:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by therealtilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her morals are high..i feel the same way..sometimes i get the cravings for the intimacy, but afterwards i feel like i did something wrong, while u are about to touch her, ask her if she TRULY doesnt mind. make her feel comfortable and if you notice the slightest sense of uneasiness, then stop and talk about how she feels
2006-08-29 21:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by okay. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then maybe you shouldn't be doing anything at all if she feels guilty after everytime she may not be ready
OR
is are you first guy she has ever done stuff with.. because that could be the answer right here
2006-08-29 21:47:27 · answer #7 · answered by Well i Say.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens to me too. like. ill regret it afterwards. just make sure that you always always always cuddle with her afterwards and kiss her on the forhead and tell her how much you love her. it helps me to not regret it when my boyfriend does this.
2006-08-29 21:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it sounds like she is repressed. If your culture does not condone such things, then don't push the girl past her comfort zone.
2006-08-29 21:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are both of you? She sounds young. Don't pressure her into something she is not ready for.
2006-08-29 21:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by lavenderroseford 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋