I'm have fallen into a pit of depression I have just had to break up with my boyfriend because I have a secret love for trees. All I can think about is trees, is this normal because it's really bringing me down. I have my GCSE's next year and I have to grow out of this phase to become a tree surgeon. Please comment if you have the same problem because I am drowning in a pool of pity. If you answer my questions then I'll answer yours thank you so much!
2006-08-29 14:41:55 · 34 answers · asked by Lollybabybubbles 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trees have rods and can be tall and dark and they don't talk back but watch out for slivers k
2006-08-29 14:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can so many people NOT know what a tree surgeon is? Wierd. Anyway, I think it's as good a reason as any to break up with a bloke, and I wish I'd thought of it first. "Awfully sorry and everything, it isn't you, it's me, I've fallen in love with a Horse Chestnut. Here, take my Sinead O'Connor CD. Seeya!" As for loving trees, it might be a mild, undiagnosed form of autism. In any case, it won't do you any harm. Trees cause far less damage than men do.
2006-08-29 15:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure that breaking up over trees is normal. There must be something else to it, hon! I do understand dealing with depression because I do everyday. Some days I just don't see how I'm going to make it through the day! You might need to speak to a counselor, or maybe your church pastor. Both would be a good choice and may have some suggestions that would help you to deal with this serious problem. I hope you find what you need soon, honey! Good luck and God Bless!
2006-08-29 14:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this a secret problem...ur talkin as though u commited a sin or sumthn ... I seriously dont understand the reason why ur boyfrnd has to leave u becuz u love trees ..... If he doesnt understand u and doesnt wish to make u happy that way ...i think u are better off away frm him....take sum time out...relax and think abt ur GCSE's alone .... if u do believe in prayer then that might be a gud remedy too..... talk to sum1 who knws u best and that will help u loosen up !
2006-08-29 14:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Daniella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are just really really focused on your goals. Maybe now is not the time for a boyfriend. It can be hard to balance a boyfriend and other responsiblities. As long as you are feeling good about life in general, and it's only the boyfriend thing getting you down, I wouldn't worrry too much. Talk with your ex about your goals and that they are important to you, and it's hard to concentrate on other things. Maybe your mind will open back up a little as you move closer to your goal. It wouldn't hurt to talk to a psychologist. It can be a little scary or awkward at first, but it's worth a try : )
2006-08-29 14:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by anl4smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure if youre serious or just having a laugh with this question - but if you're serious you need help girl!! I can safely say ive never heard of anyone getting obsessed with trees, but each to their own I guess. Maybe you need to see a medical person about this. And also maybe you should try explaining your prob to the ex boyfriend - it may not be too late to salvage the relationship if he understands your problem.
2006-08-30 22:01:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just wondering what do u mean u love trees and what is a tree surgeon
2006-08-29 14:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by TropicalGlitter31103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, some people are meant to be single. And if your love is so strong for trees...a love that makes you devote all your thoughts and energy into them...then it wouldn't be fair to the guy you are dating if you start dating. I think you just need to be single for a little while to sort out your thoughts.
2006-08-29 14:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Emi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not normal just think of your boyfriend as a tree. dont feel ashamed alot of things turn people on. i read a book bout a person who hurting other people turns him on so trees are nothing. just imagine him as a tree. kiss the"tree" freak the tree. no harm done
2006-08-29 14:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW. Are you on that meth again?
OK well just think about how horrible the trees were to you. Pretend that they were refusing to let animals live in their trunks. lol hope you overcome this problem soon. I bet you will after you are sober again.
2006-08-29 14:46:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trees are trees babe... As much as you love them you can't get married to one... stick to a guy who repects ur affections for ur love of trees and you'll be ok
2006-08-29 19:27:58 · answer #11 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋