My bf like to watch porn movies, and like know I was talking to him on the phone and he told me that is what he is doing, and I hung up on him, and I told him why would he want to watch it when he have me?? Do u think I am over reacting??
2006-08-29 14:39:11 · 17 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you're not over reacting. Stay true to yourself. Doesn't mean he will stop but never keep quiet if you feel strongly about something.
2006-08-29 14:45:06 · answer #1 · answered by cat s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over-reacting, definitely.
Porn ....really has nothing to do with the relationship actually.
It was "part of his life" before you and him became an item, and now it still is.....
But porn is not infidelity....he just likes it because....well. its porn, cmon, and men are visual so the stimulation is great.
If you and your man are intimate, he probably isn't fantasizing about porn chicks....he's most likely thrilled just to be there, in your bed.
Him watching porn doesn't mean he likes you any less, or you're not good enough for him.....its just a "hobby" of his.
Maybe you can watch some with him, he'll probably enjoy that a LOT.
So yeah...don't worry hun, he's still yours. Let him have his alone time with the remote and his hand. because when he's all done he'll most likely call you. =)
2006-08-29 21:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Hiroko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes your over reacting, I have learned that no matter what a male has at home there is something about there curiousity for porn that just over powers everything. Typically it is pretty harmless unless however they become addicted, then you might have a problem. But it's just a male thing that we may never understand, so don't get upset just let him be a man.
2006-08-29 21:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Reckless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you are over his house surprise him with a porn movie and sit and watch together. It's not as bad as people make it seem. Try something new and be spontaneous, he'll love you for it.
2006-08-29 21:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your feelings are normal. I have felt the same way in previous relationships. I think it was disrespectful for him to view them while talking on the phone with you. There is plenty of other time in the day for him to watch these films, and he could always invite you to watch them with him. When talking to him in person, or on the phone, he should give you his attention and take your conversations seriously. It's perfectly normal to feel jealous or awkard by this situation.
2006-08-29 21:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by anl4smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes looking 4 a more physical relation ship and you are not tending 2 his wants. maybe you likes you alot and knows he wants more physical moves and you are n ot givin it 2 him, he hates that but he likes u way 2 much 2 ended and he thought the way 2 plz his need without imbarressing you is by waching porn. try being more physical ok? need more help just yahoo msg me then!
2006-08-29 21:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might need some variety to spice things up a bit. Maybe you should try some new lingerie, or possibly suggest some new techniques. It's worth a shot! Good luck!
2006-08-29 21:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry babe but i think u are.
Porn is a normal part of life.
He still loves you its just that porno is like a snack for guys.
Try to understand him or just dont talk about it but he is a guy and its normal.
2006-08-29 21:42:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break. We men are visual. We like to watch.
2006-08-29 22:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u are
i mean common a majority of guys do it
its natural
maybe to make him really happy watch it with him one day
u might even learn some new thing from it
2006-08-29 21:45:30 · answer #10 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋