he was ok at first i was a cashier he kept comming in the store where i worked he asked me out several times i finally went out with him we talked about my problems he ending up buying the house i live in and put it in my name only then a few months later asked me to marry him i a 3 kids ok then after i married him i found out he was a control freak i mean he is 20 years older than myself he has had several surgeries including a back surgery he is a diabiet and on alot of meds but does not think he takes to much in the past 3 months he has had 3 wrecks he is still ok just banged up did he marry me cause i was young and me and the children could take care of him he also has a farm i do alot of the feedin but not all so what do you think is up?
2006-08-29 14:38:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Could he be going blind?
Other than that, I don't know.
2006-08-29 14:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. I'd say he was attracted to and married a younger wonman. If you let him walk all over you he will. If you don't want to do all that stuff say hey man this is not for me, either pitch in or get rid of the extra heavy load
2006-08-29 21:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like either one of you were in love? Perhaps, you both married out of convenience and didnt take time to find out what a future might be with him. Youre married now, so, 'for better or for worse'. Try to work it out as long as possible...hopefully, better times to come.
2006-08-29 22:17:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while you still can. 20 years is too much of an age difference and he probably expects you to be his nurse too. Good luck,
2006-08-29 21:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good to see what old men don't have to offer and an experience of what not to do again
2006-08-29 21:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Veevee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be grateful someone wants to take care of you, I think you are looking at it wrong. takes your eyes off what you are doing for him so you can see what he is doing for you.
2006-08-29 21:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u mest up just run and dont stop
2006-08-29 21:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Joey S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is using you and your children.
2006-08-29 21:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by sbg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋