This guy keeps hittin me HARD and i hit him back thinking its a joke and then he starts yelling at me!
If i throw something at him he gets mad and starts screaming at me. But then he sits there and throws stuff at me.
One thing I hate is when people threaten me and he was saying some girl i dont even know is gonna punch me in my face i really wanted to lean over and choke him! when im really mad i dont think i dont want to pull the pencil out of my pocket and stick it in his eye. I really dont want to go to that church any more, i really liked it there...
it feels like alot of people dont like me there...not really just him and two other people...what should i do?
2006-08-29 14:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Just Love It♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The other two: this dude who i thought was cute i guess he found out and then told this girl {the other one who i think hates me} to pretend that shes his girlfriend. i think those two hate me plus the dude who's always hiting me, plus the dude who i thought was cutes sister... i think its stupid really.
2006-08-29 14:43:43 · update #1
it wasent a church service it was a youth thing. so i ahve to see him and possibly talk to him EVREY saturday.
2006-08-29 14:48:06 · update #2
This goes to show you, you can't even go to church to escape from teenage drama.
2006-08-29 14:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by BAnne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This "guy" is definitely not showing a Christian attitude.
I can't believe all this is happening in the church service, it must be outside of the sanctuary. And I bet it is with teens not adults.
May I suggest you avoid these people who don't want you there and take up company with some who do. You said you liked it there before all this started happening.
Even in church there could be people who feel insecure about themselves and react when someone makes them feel bad in some way. If they would do this to you, they would do it to someone else, so it has to stop. I'm certain if the elders of the church knew this was happening they would be most unhappy.
You have to decide if you are part of the solution, or part of the problem.
2006-08-29 21:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by nightrider 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking to your pastor is a very good idea. If you don't feel comfortable doing that, try a youth worker or a Sunday School teacher. Part of this is your own anger management, and you would feel much better in general if you got this under control. As an emergencyresponse, only respond to him with "Jesus loves you too," and move away from him.
2006-08-29 21:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa...sounds like this guy has issues
If possible see if you can keep going to this church (if you determine they teach the Truth) and just not sit near this guy or be around him...if the prob continues, definitely talk to an elder or the preacher or someone.
Unfortunately in this world, not everyone is gonna like you (even other God believers). Just gotta deal with it and love them anyway.
I will pray for you and for this guy who is bothering you.
Peace be with you. :-)
Happy
2006-08-29 21:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the preist that youll meet him in a room to ask him something important ans confess your sins. while the preist is waiting for you tell this guy thats been pissing you off that your sorry and that you will flash him to show that your sorry. then lead the jerk to the room where the preist is and let the guy wlk in first then slam the door on both of them and jam it locked. then put your ear to the door and listen to the the preist brutally rape the guy
2006-08-29 21:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till many other burly hero-type men are around, then start beating the heck out of him while yelling "your not gonna ever hit me again!!!"...
Dont worry, many heros will come to your rescue if if fights back....
2006-08-29 21:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of church did you go to? I think I would be trying a different one.
2006-08-29 21:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes two to tangle. If someone is hitting you without cause you should report them at once. Or...you could be their door mat and not snitch.
2006-08-29 21:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by child_of_the_lion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is this coming from? Why do you feel others don't like you? IT sounds like there is a past that you are not telling us. Otherwise why would you feel this way?
2006-08-29 21:34:43 · answer #9 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess my concern is that HE is not the only one causing you problems .. just the main one.
Perhaps you should pray about this ..
2006-08-29 21:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by Bob J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋