there is a girl at my school that i really really really really really really love and when im around her its like everythings perfect, and, i love her, and i dont only love her because she's pretty, i mean, dont get me wrong, she's beautiful, but, she's also kind and nice and funny and, well if i had to describe her with just a few words i would say "she is beautiful beyond description, too marvelous for words, too wonderful for comprehension, like nothing ever seen or herd", and were kinda friends and we talk sometimes when we get the chance and i was about to wait a couple weeks to get to know her better and then ask her out but a couple of weeks ago she just started talking a lot less and i try to talk to her sometimes and now im doing most of the talking and she seems to just listen for the next thing im gunna say and she just says "wow" after most of the things i say and then just wiat for me to say something else. What's goin on??? and if you no tell me what to do. Tell me?!?!
2006-08-29 14:16:24 · 27 answers · asked by JesusFreak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps she is waiting for you to ask her out and she doesn't understand why you're just talking instead of doing so. Go ahead and tell her you would like to go out. The worst thing that could happen is that she says no and you two just stay friends. But you sound like you need to relax a little and chill somewhat on the talking. Next time, let her talk. And if she doesn't want to, just enjoy sitting with her and being in each other's company.
All this is a guess, however, for the only way you will ever know how she feels and if you two can try a more intimate relationship is to ask her the big questions instead of just talking.
2006-08-29 14:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by artfuldragons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's waiting for you to ask her out or like she wants you to tell her that you have feelings for her. If you don't your gonna lose her. It seems that your losing her little by little and I know this because when the conversations are changing that means you and her aren't on the same page. You need to hurry up and tell how you feel and don't wait for her to ask u how you feel. Sit her down or get close to her and let her know that she's a beautiful person that u want to be with. B4 that see if she has feelings for u. Only tell her how you feel if u guys have a great connection cuz I'm not sure if u do. If u was once close try to get her back to b ur friend cuz it sounds like she's not really love u as much as u r love her.
2006-08-29 14:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Chelly luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm.. You haven't told her about what you feel right? It could be that she have problems she don't want people to know about.. Did you even asked her if she have problems lately? Most girls refuse to talk about their problems.. That's one reason..
Another is that she could've been a bit.. Um.. Bored? There are people who are getting least interested when you kept being with them or following them.. They have this feeling of uneasiness because you are always there with them.. "He's always there even if I don't want him too.." But that is just a possibility..
Have you told other people about what you feel for her? There could be this chance that this said person told her about what you feel and it's either she is shy/embarassed about it, shocked or she simply is not interested in you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by saying it..
Try to ask her if she have problems.. If she insisted that she doesn't have any, then ask her why she suddenly acted that way.. Ask her if you are making her feel uneasy.. Observe her.. Is she like that with other people/friends or does she act like that on only you.. Be observant and do ask her to answer your own questions..
Good luck and hope I helped ^-^
2006-08-29 14:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i know that description, haha, that's a song, right? a christian song entitled, I Stand In Awe. well, as per your dilemma... uhmmmnn... i guess, it's now time for you to listen and let her do the talking. why not ask her how she is, how's her day or something that will let her share her thoughts. or you could her if there's something wrong, tell the girl that she's been quiet for the past few days and it's bothering you. then at the end of the conversation, tell her you miss her. =)
2006-08-29 14:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just be tired of "plain-talk"... you may be waiting too long to get on with better things to say to her... in other words, she may have been more interested when she thought you were interested in her, maybe in dating her... but you just kept talking about regular stuff & not showing a real interest in her, to her... just try showing a more personal interest in her, to her... then if she doesn't seem interested, she probably wasn't really all that interested in you in the first place.
2006-08-29 14:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to comprehend that the prospect she says no is 50-50. you ought to take exhilaration in that she , for any motives, ought to not have the capacity to settle on your invitation yet that doesn't advise that's the proper of the international. yet in case you concentration a lot on rejection before you act you received't have the capacity to act precise. do exactly not imagine about what ought to take position and do what a guy does. ahead and ASK. good success!
2016-11-23 13:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
waaaaaaaaa.. looks like she's not that interested in you and she's just being polite coz you're her friend or maybe she's going through something and she just want your company so she'll spend less time thinkin about it.. but try to be sensitive about her feelings and try to observe her actions when she's around you.. is she showing you some extra special gestures? something like that.. i know that one of the hardest thing about loving someone is when they dont feel the same way we do..and it really sux! so keep your eye open, dont expect too much unless you're sure about her feelings with you! goodluck! *wink*
2006-08-29 14:24:56 · answer #7 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you rheart tells you to do ask her out that way you have more of a chance of one on one just the two of you to actually have atalk oh and is she blond because that might explain the whole wow thing sometimes whene girsl like boys thats what they will say because they think they dont sound stupid when infact its opposite but give it a go she likes you ask her out
2006-08-29 14:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. Maybe she realized she liked you and is now afraid and shy...idk. But you are never gunna find out whats the matter unless you talk to her and ask her and TELL HER. Keep me posted on how it goes.....you can message me if you want
2006-08-29 14:21:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She either doesn't like you or she is nervous and scared of being in a relationship, there are other possibilities as well, but those two would be my best guess, either or of them. I would suggest talking to her and trying to see what's going on. Talk to her friends as well if you are friends with her friends. Don't pry or invade her privacy, but just show her you care and talk to her calmly. Hope this helps,
Kiara
2006-08-29 14:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋