i found a weird message on my machine a couple of days ago for my boyfriend from some girl. when she was confronted about it, she said her intentions were innocent and she had no idea about me (i'm his fiance, and his child's mother). she said he approached her at his work, gave her the number and when she asked him if he had a girlfriend, he said no. now here's where it gets weird... the number that she called isn't/was never HIS, it's my old number from before i moved out with him (i.e. my personal line at my mom's house), and when i confronted him about it, he said he didn't even know who she was. now, if he didn't want her or me to know about each other, why give MY phone number? also, i know plenty of people who have my old number and might not want us together, even though i would think this is an EXTREMELY juvenile way to break people up. anyway, i'm giving my fiance the benefit of the doubt but i'm still wondering about who i should believe, some girl or my husband to be?
2006-08-29 13:56:35 · 22 answers · asked by linalaurel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say forget about her, something is up but I don't think it's your guys doing. It would take more then that for me to think my guy is doing anything weird. So, I would say just relax about him, but keep your eye on her.
2006-08-29 14:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can look you in the Eye and say he didn't do it then he's probably telling you the truth . But, if he can't then he sure as hell lieng to you about it . Believe me been there done it all after 20 years of Marriage and 2 Divorces . Heard all the lies and alibies to last 2 lifetimes and then some . And learned that it doesn't matter who the guy is there is always a way to tell if hes a liar . He will do something he wouldn't normally do if he was telling you the truth . Ask him what his mothers name is and remember how he acts when he tells you and then later ask him about her and see if anything changes about the way he acts like he is uneasy or gets mad or something like that and you will have your answer in black and white . Good Luck .
2006-08-29 14:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by cherrycandy32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one. I would give your fiance the benefit of the doubt. Anything else happens again, then he could be cheating. Who knows, maybe it was a wrong number, or maybe it is real. Only one way to find out contact her. Or wait and see what happens next.
2006-08-29 14:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I smell a rat!! If your b\f says he doesn't know who she is, I would believe him, honey. Don't go looking for thorns. And a guy with a baby on the way is usually a very happy secure fellow, trust me. And besides it's not weird it's downright stupid, if he wanted this girl, why would he give your old number, especially at your parents place.
2006-08-29 14:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God all the paranoia!! There could be a completely different answer, that is one of his friends tried playing a practical joke on him...a sucky one that backfired. I almost got divorced over something like that, when a friend pushed his wife's black lace panties under the driver's seat of my car. I swore to my wife that i hadn't been doing anything which was true. I got Chuck to tell me the truth when we were coon hunting without dogs and a coon had him out on a limb. There is a 50/50 chance that it wasn't some girl who did it on her own.
2006-08-29 14:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are dumb, but I don't think he's that dumb to give another woman your phone number. A woman once called me and cursed me out for sleeping with her son--whom I did not know. She knew my name, heritage--even described me. At the end of the day she transposed 2 digits in the phone number and got my number...just so happens that the woman had the same name as me, same heritage as me and physical description as me. She later apologized. On the other hand, if you are really feeling suspicious investigate....does she work at the same place as him--did she know where he works..did she use his correct name? Can she describe him (physically) etc.
2006-08-29 14:08:13 · answer #6 · answered by BabyJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL you allready said you are giving him the benefit of the doubt BUT i hope for your sake he is telling the truth, i also agree with you it all sounds weird, why would the girl lie to you, there are a lot of whys & they need to be answered if your going to marry him, or this will allways be in your mind,
2006-08-29 14:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 01:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my partners cheated on me b4, and at the time i had a strong gut feeling that something had happened. i confronted him and my friends and all said nah nothing happened. i just couldnt get rid of this niggaling feeling something wasnt quite right, so i kept questioning them and sure enough the truth eventually came out. i was right. i was so hurt. i have moved on now and it took me a long time to build my trust in men up again, but i have. so i say go with your gut feeling, i hope you dont end up being hurt like i was. and if you do get hurt make sure you get your revenge on him just like i did, its such a sweet taste it leaves in your mouth. hahahaha
2006-08-29 14:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by slippery seal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to yur husband 2 b cuz he should be able to trust u and vice versa plus he's gonna make a commitment and u should start to just wtch out just 4 anything suspicious
2006-08-29 14:00:37 · answer #10 · answered by babiedoll9264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋