A few weeks ago, i met this really cool girl at the bar. We chatted, some of her (guy friends, whom are also friends of mine) They were driving her around that night, so she could drink. They are both cockblocks, and unattractive. They worked hard to block me, but I got her to come up stairs and talk. We talked for a while, she was into me, giving all the gestures. Leaning in real close, eye contact, body language, ect. We exchanged numbers and then her friends came after her and drug her away! I didnt want to follow, so i stayed upstairs with some friends. Then i went down to get a beer. She was outside sitting alone texting on the phone. I spoke to her but she seemed like the was busy so i left her alone.
Then next thing i know she's leaving with her friends, so i got NO goodbye or anything. everything just changed right then and there! within 5min. she was uninterested. I tried calling her a few days later, no answer - no return call. Whats up? what happened to make her ignore me??
2006-08-29 13:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i tried calling her a second time and no answer. it's just weird how she was acting all attracted to me one min. and then her friends carry her away from me, and then the next min. she's ignoring me.
i wonder if they said anything to her? i dont know why they would though.. because i'm friends with these guys too even though they are freakin cockblocks!
2006-08-29 14:02:14 · update #1
It doesn't sound like she has a mind of her own. If her friends have that much influence over her do you really want to get involved with her anyway?
I don't know what could have happened to make her act so differently in such a short period of time, but I should think that you would be grateful that you saw this side of her before you got into a relationship with her.
Imagine dating her with those mood swings and her friends always there to interfere one way or another.
I think she did you a favor and you should move on.
Was she really that important to you to put up with being treated that rudely on your first "meeting"?
2006-08-29 14:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey teamsleep05,
It sounds like you needed to talk with the cockblocks instead to get the full story on the situation. It could be that they know you all too well, and they knew how she would react to you drunk, and were just doing their job.
Now that she's sober, and got a look at you, she's definitely not interested in you. That's why no reply phone calls. You got the message, man? Just forget her, and next time that you see her, just ignore her. She's not worth any more of your time.
Concentrate on getting a girl that will be coming on to you for you, and not so drunk that she needs to have designated drivers and protectors. I'd also be curious over what the cockblocks have to say about you, because there's some talk going around about you. You don't need any friends like that around you.
Happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-08-29 14:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 01:46:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they were protecting her since she was drinking all night long. They may have sensed that you were getting too close to her and that you may have wanted to take advantage of the situation.
She may have just broken up with someone and was flirting with you and then when her friends took her away she forgot about you. Either she was being rude on purpose or drunk.
Either way, I would forget about her.
2006-08-29 14:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother with the games...just move on. A lot of girls in general are that way. Also, a lot of girls are afraid to be upfront with guys maybe for a fear of being viewed as a b----- etc. Cut your losses and move on. There's someone better out there for you!
2006-08-29 14:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone was telling her things that she either didn't need to know or that weren't true. A bar probably isn't the best place to find a girl anyway. Don't sweat it.
2006-08-29 14:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by linalaurel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try calling her again if she does not answer again then just forget her and move on!!
2006-08-29 13:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by meg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to call her again
2006-08-29 14:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no wonder. you can't spell either!!
2006-08-29 13:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋