I am 40 and have come to the conclusion that men my age still don't know what they want and they are no closer to wanting to settle with one person than the 20 somethings so I have been trying to get an older guy, even as old as 60. I have had a lover who was mid 50's and was better than anyone I was with the was my age or younger.
2006-08-29 13:28:46 · 24 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Believe me, unless you are a complete frog, you will have no trouble getting a man of sixty to like you. Any man that age would be flattered to be with a younger woman.
At that age twenty years should not be an impediment.
Good luck.
2006-08-29 13:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy Groucho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will give you the same advice a very wise woman, my mother gave me. you looking to hard for love, why dont you just go out and have some fun and party for a while, give up on looking 4 the perfect man for a while. let him find you, it may take a while but it will happen. more than likely you will meet him at a party, work, maybe a family friend. just go and have some fun. so i did, i partied hard for 6 months after she said this to me, the boom bang the earth really started moving 4 me. i found the love of my life and we been together 9 years now, so i say keep the faith it will happen 4 you someday soon im sure of it.
2006-08-29 13:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by slippery seal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I actually think maybe they don't realize you are interested in them. Try being a little more flirtatious, or (ahem) forward? Sometimes older men may just be oblivious that they are being hit on. Or, maybe you could try one of the dating sites and specify what age you are interested in. That way, you will only receive hits within the right age range.
Good luck
2006-08-29 13:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you had a lover who was in his mid 50's you should have no problem finding one older.
2006-08-29 13:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be sexy. Men love younger women. It is nature. Be your young 40 self. And flaunt it! But be some what coy, older men seem to like that!
2006-08-29 13:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
with men in that age group they are usually set in their ways and ways of doing things. you could try and just be friends and get interested and spend some time with him (not for the purpose of getting him to ask you for a date but letting him know that you are interested in him). don't be too aggressive sometimes that could be a turn off but above all be yourself and let him see you for who you are so that he can like and accept you without you having to act like someone you are not.
2006-08-29 13:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why it's difficult for you, as you are attractive and have a good figure (or you say you do!). Maybe it's something in your personals ad or something in the way you come across. It's hard to say without knowing more or seeing the ad.
2006-08-30 07:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by AnOrdinaryGuy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look. There are men of all ages looking for good women.
2006-08-29 15:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 60 and it's not hard to get him let him you like him talk to him let him know how you feel 60 is vary cool good luck to ya
2006-08-29 13:36:20 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious???? You can't find 'normal' 40 somethings? Well, I suppose I've been having trouble finding another serious 30 something.....maybe we're looking in the wrong places....
2006-08-29 13:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by ThatguyPete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋