Does he think I'm ugly?

Question

This guy I believe is playing with my head. He flirts and Makes eye contact just stares into my eyes and down at my lips. With a big smile. But then won't even look my way for days. He doesn't seem like a mean guy at all. People actually think he's really nice. I guess my question is why does he do this to me. Ok it's a ego boost for him right? But it's been going on for about 4 months. Does he think I'm so ugly. He that why he sometimes won't look at me at all. But then sometimes he just stare into my eyes for like 5 seconds. He even makes a point of looking down at my lips a couple of times. Like on purpose I think. I hope he's not making fun of me. I've always been only nice to him. And I don't deserve this. I mean other people have said I'm pretty. But I have very low self esteem. and I don't think I am. So when a guy does this to me, I look at the worst and the worst is he thinks I'm ugly!!! Because everyone has different tast so he might think this!!!!

Answer 1

Maybe he has low self esteem too and can only manage to look and smile at what he is admiring

Unless one of you can find the courage then neither of you will ever know.
You have got to be brave in todays age, and the younger you can find your inner strength and face your fears the better life you'll have.

Look inside and discover the true beauty, highlight the surface beauty yeah but YOU are INSIDE of what he is admiring. Allow him to see that part of you and watch him melt into your hands ;)

If he is making so much eye contact he is trying to send you signals, can you feel them? Awaken your senses by picking up his vibes....
Be confident,and be beautiful by loving what you are and allow him to see it ok?

I wish you luck, God Bless xxxx

Answer 2

Okay first take a deep breath. Your not ugly, i dont know you and i can tell because ugly people are typically the people that think there beautiful. Now just calm down and try having a conversation with the guy, and listen carefully he'll drop hints to you if he likes you or doesn't. Also know that if on the off chance he is making fun of you your a much better person than him and he will ever be. So just keep your head held high and look for somebody better if things dont work out here....its all good im telling ya.

Answer 3

If a guy plays with your head, it's because you let him play with your head! Why would you let him get close enough to eye ball you and then lick his lips like you're some piece of meat? In 20 years you probably won't even remember this "dude" so why are you tripping now??? Oh, yeah you said you have low, oops very low self esteem- how about this it really works...work on your self esteem! Workout, hang out with Friends who validate what a great person you are, etc.etc. Guys are usually attracted to girls who have self confidence and are busy being active with things they are interested in. Try martial arts, or some sport you like...tennis any one . Learn to love yourself because in the end if you don't like yourself no one else will. Many girls who thought they were ugly duckling when they were young grow up to be beautiful, string , intelligent, successful women. Maybe you're a late bloomer. Honest to God... who the heck cares if he doesn't think you're pretty why does his vote even count? Oh yeah because you gave him the power to determine your self worth! Wrong don't be a fool. Be yourself...keep him at arms length next time he's tries to invade your personal space put up your hand and tell him to back off...let him wonder what gives,...maybe he'll loose some sleep wondering if you don't want him close because he smells bad! Be good to yourself...

Answer 4

A lot of people look at lips when they talk to someone. They are looking at what the person is saying by watching the lips. Also, some people are nervous about looking people in the eye because of their own insecurities, so their eyes might travel down to the lips.

Answer 5

You are getting all worked up over nothing what so ever! He is flirting, nothing more, nothing less...and he doesn't mean for it to go anywhere. Where did the "ugly " thing come from? The next time he does this, smile at him and go on your way. He is playing ...don't play the game. Simple as that. Good luck

Answer 6

I don't think he thinks you're ugly, or he wouldn't act like this. I think he probably likes you. However he might be a bit of a player, someone that likes flirting with a lot of different girls and maybe you are just one of the people he flirts with.

Answer 7

ummm stop it stop it stop it.. stop holding your life about some guy..who is just stupid...i mean if he is coward enough not to even ask you out then its his problem...anyway i think you should just stop worrying about it..if he likes you he'll ask you out if he thinks ur ugly/ who cares? i mean you said so ur self.. every one has different taste right? i mean really are you going to let a stupid thing like that worry you and make your self esteem even lower and then you would sit in front of the mirror for hours wondering if your nose is too big...

Answer 8

I'd guess you did something to turn him off. At some point in the flirting you said no to him in some way and he took it to heart. so he still likes you...but is totally convinced that you don't like him. So he takes a look every so often and goes 'darn, too bad she does not like me'.......

Answer 9

you need to be confident with urself before you get to wrapped up in a guy who may be "teasing you." if you can look at urself and trully think you are amazing, then that is what guys will see. Don't be so hard on urself, maybe he's just shy..

Answer 10

He may have low self esteem. he may not want to pursue anything with you because of circumstance. "professional relationship"I doubt it's because your ugly because then he wouldn't flirt with you period. Then again, mabe he's just weird.