You never will but the pain will gradually go down. It will help to get new dog, or other, friends, even if they are not living with you.
2006-08-29 12:53:10
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answered by michaelsan 6
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Have you lost your dog? I am deeply sorry if you have.
Have you ever lost a dog before? If not, the first time can be a very painful and long ride. I would suggest you don't get another dog right away. Wait! Until you feel better about the one you have lost.
I made a mistake. Our puppy died at 1 and 1/2 years old. The breeder said he would give us another one at half the price. We thought the offer was too good to pass up.
What happened to me was, I resented our little Sammy, because he was not Carter. I thought, in my grief, how dare he come into my house and think he can take Carter's place, cuz he can't. Even though I was the one who welcomed him into my home.
This all took place in April. It was not till two or three weeks ago that I could see what an angel Sammy was, and shame on me for ever having those thoughts of resentment against him. He could not help it Carter died. I didn't want Sammy, though, he was not my baby Carter. Carter died of a grand mal seizure.
Sammy is my life now. But it took a long time. To this day, I don't know what I'd do without that little ball of furr, mischievous although, he is.
Losing a pet is so darn hard my friend. Check out the rainbrow bridge on the web. Connect with others who have recently lost their dogs, or other pets. There are numbers you can also call and talk to someone about your grief. I wish you the best. And, if you really have lost your dog, I am truly sorry. Give yourself time to heal, and don't let go until you feel ready. When you are able to say good bye, then it may be time for you to take a little more time, and then get another dog.
2006-08-29 13:49:05
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answered by rach_cast 3
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i matter on your discomfort and unhappiness, and likewise your melancholy. You gave your dogs all of your love and larger and clearly you'll cry plenty for some days. enable your emotions flood out, and picture about the way you and your dogs had attractive situations mutually and also you ought to continually have those memories to keep in concepts. How did your dogs die, changed into it a unexpected difficulty or an ailment? have you ever no one else in the kin who can share your loss and be comforting to one yet another? you're an excellent man or woman, who has infinite love and affection and that i'm hoping you'll continually be like that. So please be comforted in the knowledge of what you and your animal had, a particular bond, and the unfettered love you gave and received. givemestrength
2016-11-23 13:34:05
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answered by ? 4
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Know that these feelings are normal.You lost an important friend in your life.One who was with you daily and Im sure loved you as well.Remember the good time you had together doing his favorite things.At first this will be hard and you will miss him alot,but with time the memories become cherished and you will return to them often to remember your friend.Dont deny yourself a new dog thinking it unloyal to your lost one.The dog you lost loved more then anything to see you happy and if a new puppy or dog will do this,trust me your old dog will approve!The new kid may even take on some of his old habits!Good luck!
2006-08-29 12:58:29
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answered by T H 2
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Its sad and im very sorry I can imagine its like looseing a child, i do belive that for dogs there is an after life and life is short soon you will see your dear angle again there playing with you and laying near you like he did in the life he remebers with you, he dosen't want you to be sad, he wants you to rember all the happy things you did together.I know this sounds sudden but get another dog,a minature or toy puppy so he/she has a longer life on earth to spend with you. Your dog will be happy to know he has a sister or brother down on earth, draw picture of your old dog and celebrate his birthday and name your puppy after him or a name close to his.I hope you soon can get over the pain, i also could imagine what pain i"ll have when my Sophie dies but shes a minature only 1 years old, and has at lest another 17 years with us on earth but many more in the other world.
2006-08-29 13:48:22
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how awful you feel, I lost my dear dog last week. It is a horrible feeling. I am fortunate that I have another dog to help me through, but he's no Rooney. Rooney was a once in a lifetime dog. But it may be some comfort to you to get another dog as soon as you can handle it. My neighbor also found it a comfort when his old dog passed away to get another. But you will always miss that dog.
Wishing you comfort.
2006-08-29 13:18:57
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answered by Maisy 3
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I know how you feel. I have lost several cats to the Grim Reaper and it makes you sooo sad. Time healed all my wounds for every single one. I still miss them though. Each and every one of them was a good pet and i loved them all. Try not to think of him being gone so much. Think of all the good times you had with him and how much you love him. You miss him so much because you loved him alot and i bet he loved you to. It will be ok.
2006-08-29 13:29:17
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answered by S_S 2
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Time heals all wounds, but in the meantime it might help if you write a story/poem/song about him or draw a picture of him. It helps to work your emotions out through a creative outlet. Or even just call a friend who will listen and talk about him. It will take awhile, but it will get easier.
2006-08-29 12:52:32
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answered by Schleppy 5
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We had a family memorial service for our dog. We sat in the living room, talked about him, cried, played a special song, said a prayer, hugged each other, more crying. Then we went back to our life's. It helped. You keep them in your hearts for the rest of your life, but time does help.
2006-08-29 13:07:23
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answered by ladytc 6
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It will go away with time...you will be left with great memories..it is just a part of all life. Sorry your doggie died, but you knew it would happen one day. My doggie is in his last years, I will miss him greatly, but I love him today, and that is what counts ot both me and him. Good luck
2006-08-29 12:59:44
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answered by Anonymous
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