My sister is so mean and when she is on the phone and talking to her friends she yells at me and makes fun of me and also call me mean names... I hate her for that and i hope that you help me.... Because even when i dont even do anythign to her she just is mean....
2006-08-29 12:45:39 · 15 answers · asked by Allie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ignore her. This will drive her crazy! Don't even give her the time of day.
2006-08-29 12:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you and your sister don't get along, it is not your fault. When she talks rude about you with her friends, you shouldn't care. They are not your friends and not your buisness. However if she says stuff like that toward your friends, if they back out on you, then they aren't your friends anyway, so no lose there. If she is mean, then u better not be mean to her as well. Just say something that will calm the situation like sorry, it is just what i am, you are so right i am trying to improve. Ofcorse u don't necessarily have to mean it. Get a hobby or something that you call fully concentrate on, so you will be too busy to care about what your sister says (heck you maybe so busy that you probably wont see her often). When you think that she is being a little bit nicer towards you, than try and get to know her better. Maybe she has a problem or whatever that is causing her to be so irritated. But ofcorse, all of this takes time, so be patient! Good Luck!
2006-08-29 19:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by maiden_india93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there... my older sister used to get annoyed by me and used to be mean to me for what I thought was no reason. It turns out she just wanted her own space. Maybe you should just ignore her. It's not right that she calls you names. I would tell her not to call you names anymore because it is just showing immature she is. That will probably get to her. :o) Her little sister telling her to grow up. he he.
Just hang in there. Maybe someday you'll be great friends.
2006-08-29 19:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. I have a big sister too. When I wear/touch her stuff she goes off at me. Yet she expects me to lay off when she wants and decides to touch my stuff. I always tell everyone I want to be an only child and they always tell me “but it gets so lonely” and I’m like “ that’s what best friends are for”. But yeah I resolved my problem by not mixing with her. I keep to my self, chill and do my own sh*t. But hey everyone’s different and this is just my opinion.
2006-08-29 19:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by blak_gurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say u beat the s***t out of her!! a good fight solves all!! makes her know not to mess with u again!! as soon as she starts yellin at u for no reason just go off and yell back tellin her what the f*** does she want and to just shut up!! lol makin her be all lame when shes talkn on the phone call her stuuf too just dont go wayyyy over board!! cuz me n my sis were kinda like that before an one time i did go off and we were really fightin!! n now were koo its weird how that happenes........well maybe it wont be the same for u but thats my advice.......
2006-08-29 20:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her. She probably doesn't mean it or is unaware that she is hurting your feelings. Tell her that her actions are offensive and have made you feel uncomfortable. Good luck.
2006-08-29 19:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by Miki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she you're older sister? if she is, i can understand where she is coming from. i too have a little sister and she was always irritating (no offense sadie). but she has abosolutely no right to talk about you her friends. i have no idea what kind of sister she is, but talk to her about that!
2006-08-29 20:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Drew 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you dont like her to treat you that way.. tell her once, and if still the same, well... yell back at her !.. :D
but remember she loves you.. it just that her style is mean..
dont worry just do your things.. ignore her bad karma!
2006-08-29 19:55:17 · answer #8 · answered by qinghill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you tell her how you feel. Did you tell someone what she is doing that would probably be the best. Good luck.
2006-08-29 19:52:32 · answer #9 · answered by dancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well tell her how u fell that it makes u upset maybe that will work.
tell her that she should care more about u her sister and not her freinds and her phone
2006-08-29 19:53:14 · answer #10 · answered by Goofy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋