i been living with my boyfriend for abour 9 mounth now and he always says mean things to me when he is mad like he wish that i would die, that he would be more happy if that happen and more and it hurts me so much cuz i care about him so much. i dont know what to do?
2006-08-29 12:41:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move in with your mom, dad or grandma, anyone who will take you and don't tell him. Oh, and if you don't have a job get one. You don't need that loser. Only weak people mentally abuse those they know it will hurt the most.
2006-08-29 12:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by gravytrain036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be sticking around a guy who treats you like that. You deserve better.
Advice to all girls: raise your standards. If a guy is treating you poorly then move along. I would give the same advice to a guy was dating a girl that treated him poorly. Don't stick around because you have feelings for them & don't want to lose their "love" for you. I'm not saying to dump everyone that makes a mistake. We need to forgive, show grace, etc. But, obviously there are times where we just need to see the writing on the wall and break up, move along, etc.
2006-08-29 12:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by take_me_to_the_beach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I empathize with you sweetie. My ex used to mentally abuse me. That's what it is you know? Mental abuse. Some people say it's worse then physical abuse. And I believe it could be just as bad. They drain you of your self esteem. The reason he does this. Is he's a control freak. And he has low self esteem. He wants to bring you down and hurt you to make himself feel better. Mine used to say things like your so stupid. Are you retarted or what. Just over the silliest things. I came to find out his father used to do this to him when he was a child. Just like with physical abuse it usually stems, from something that happened to them or they continually saw happening to someone else. You deserve so much better!!! My ex was great in the beginning also. Treated me like gold. The was only to get me hooked and then the real person came out. Please don't stay with him. You'll only scar yourself. I was always having to say I was sorry. This is still with me sometimes, to other people and it's been almost 3 years since we broke up. Don't be like me, I stayed way to long. Because I looked at the good qualities he had. But you know what there aren't any when he mentally abusing you and hurting you so much!!! From one mental abusee to another please get out!!!! God Bless You!!! You derserve so much better!!!! Someone who will always treat you like gold. Not like crap on the floor. I wish you all the best!!!!! Take care hun!!!!! Oh and one more thing don't think or convince yourself he's going to change he never will. He has a mental problem, it will never go away. Unless maybe he got help but control freaks usually don't because they to controlling to get help. And they don't think they need it. He will never ever ever change!!!! Sorry!!!! You'll find someone better!!!!
2006-08-29 12:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you experience something's incorrect, then something is incorrect. attempt chatting with him privately and asking with regard to the potential of your relationship. Be very own and hassle-free, it is for the main suitable. There may be many motives. perhaps he would not comprehend the thank you to specific his love, or perhaps he in simple terms has you as a female chum so he would not experience on my own. Or, because of the certainty he thinks it is organic that way. So the main suitable way is unquestionably to deliver it up - you're never going to get everywhere staying like that. stable luck!
2016-10-01 01:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
Life's too short to waste time on people like that.
They are not worth it.
You deserve much better.
2006-08-29 12:54:01 · answer #5 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of ther becuse it may just be the being of thing bad are just move maybe he is not ready for the moveing in thing
2006-08-29 12:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by ginger p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his stupid jackass. why do you think that is love. i wish someone would tell me to die. i would disappear from their life so fast it would be just like i had died
2006-08-29 12:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move in with me!
2006-08-29 12:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring him my way and i will kick his *** for u
2006-08-29 12:50:53 · answer #9 · answered by rick l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what to do?
Ummmmmmmmm.............how about DUMPING HIM?
2006-08-29 12:44:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋