I am a BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) and I get alot of men wanting to "Date" me. Thing is, most of them are attached, or if they are single only want to sleep with me on the down low. I am not saying all of them, but I feel that most of them are this way. I dont dress provocatively, I dont flirt, I know I dont give them a reason to think they can just have sex with me. When I meet someone and we talk about going out, it seems like they are usually trying to persuade me to just meet them or let them come over to have sex. Not a real date like, dinner, movies or anything that is public. I was engaged and my ex fiance took me out all the time, so I am not used to the "Lets just hook up and have sex" thing. Especially online...There are so many men trying to hook up with BBWs on the low, and they have skinny girlfriends/wives. Whats up with that? Do men really feel we dont deserve the same treatment or what?
2006-08-29 12:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lou Lou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course they get treated differently, and it is bad and all, but that is just how people are. I think that goes the same with ugly and pretty women. you don't see ugly women being treated like models with all the attention and stuff. I think that no matter how skinny or big you are, you should not ever lower your self by sleeping with men, on the low, because you know what that is just the thing it is on the low and they want to keep it that way. you are just hurting yourself. big girls just need to find guys that are right for them and show respect, there is everyone for somebody you just need to go out and find them.
2006-08-29 12:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by blinkdan04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have more sexual appeal then most women have. And even some attached men can't resist the thoughts of having sex with you.
I suggest that you try meeting men through a dating agency, where all the men are single and are seriously looking for a relationship.
2006-08-29 19:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, men don't put that much though it to all the 'treatment' and all that. It's much more simple. Guys like big boobs, and BBW have big boobs. So guys waht to have sex with them...and just that, sex and feel up the boobs. No real thought there.....
2006-08-29 19:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are really not going to want to hear this, but I'm going to be honest.
To many guys, sleeping with a fat girl is like riding a moped; it's alot of fun, but you wouldn't want your friends to see you doing it.
Many guys think of big girls as strictly booty call material...to be seen in public with a big girl as a girlfriend would be......embarrassing.
So..to answer your question, yes; many guys feel that big girls do not deserve the same treatment.
2006-08-29 19:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I believe in looking into a women's heart,large or slim and and if she has a good heart it doesn't matter, they all can make you feel love and you can make them feel loved small medium or heavy set and looks to.So just look into each others heart and you can have a wonderful relationship.
2006-08-29 19:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually, they don't unless they are enlightened. Men usually prettier women well to get something out of it. They usually won't do as much for the bigger women because they aren't as attractive to most men.
2006-08-29 19:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lucky L 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Everything you just said is so true.
2006-08-29 19:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. It costs more to take a large woman to dinner.
2006-08-29 19:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by Eric H 4 · 0⤊ 4⤋
it can be true and sad
2006-08-29 19:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋