This may sound strange, but I am the sort of person who is usually mellow, but am capable of getting very feisty if I so desire.
Which side do you guys usually like, mellow or feisty?
I've often been told that I need to lighten up and be more outgoing
What to do?
2006-08-29 12:02:38 · 18 answers · asked by Ayumi 23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends upon the person. Just be yourself. Don't try to be more mellow or fiesty just to please a guy. Be yourself. If a guy is really into you, he'll probably like you being both mellow when you're feeling mellow and fiesty when you're feeling fiesty. My girlfriend is mellow sometimes, and other times she's a real pistol. I like her that way. She's being herself--and there's never a dull moment with her.
2006-08-29 12:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like both at the right time. I like it mellow when the mood calls for it, and feisty at the appropriate time. I like a women who is independent and knows what they want in life. I can't deal with a whinny, clingy women. Sassy is a turn on to some guys. But that's just my preference. As for you, be secure with who you are, or you'll come off as a phony. Don't compromise who you are for no man! If he wants you he'll except you as you are!!
2006-08-29 19:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We humans, are not one sided characters, we have many sides to us. So you can be feisty one minute, and mellow the next, that's what makes us interesting.
If your friends say you need to be more outgoing, that's something you can work on. However, it doesn't mean, that you can't still be mellow and fiesty too.
So rather that subtract from who you are, you will be adding a new dimension to yourself, by becoming more outgoing.
2006-08-29 19:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur so mellow, that ur boring, then lighten up a bit, why dont u?
But dont be so feisty that ur hair is on fire, know what I mean...
middleground.. I bet ur friends are right.. just a tad more 'feistiness' is ok
2006-08-29 19:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Erkan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both is very hot depending on the place and time. Feisty while alone with oposite sex and mellow when meeting someone new
2006-08-29 19:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by cherrylick_124 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
both mellow while we are walking around in public but little hot feisty moments always rock
2006-08-29 19:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's a time to be feisty and a time to be mellow.You have to determine when that is.
2006-08-29 21:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the mellow side . cause i have a tendency to be wound up.
2006-08-29 19:10:10 · answer #8 · answered by CuddlyHotGuy38ForYoungerSwf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mellow in public and fiesty in bed
2006-08-29 19:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by rustyc33101613 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both, i love them as a whole package. mellow, or fiesty. both equally attractive to me
2006-08-29 19:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋