I love it when people hug me, tickle me, or mess with my hair when it's in pigtails. I like hand-holding and cuddling and the arm-around-the-shoulder thang. I might even like kissing, like pecks on the cheek and stuff (never been kissed)
2006-08-29 11:56:32 · 26 answers · asked by Ayumi 23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No there is nothing wrong with enjoying simple pleasures, like hugs and holding hands.
You will know, when it isn't right, if someone, holds you too long or something like that.
If you feel uncomfortable, then tell the one who's doing it, that you don't like that.
Otherwise, just enjoy it. They say that hugs, makes your day, so it's something that we all enjoy in our lives.
2006-08-29 11:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by johnb693 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The human touch is a normal desire for most of us...If you are touched in a way that is uncomfortable to you, you need to tell the person touching you uncomfortably to stop. Hugging, kissing, etc. with someone you like or even love is a natural thing. The human touch can be healing in most ways. Even if it is just a hug and kiss....it doesn't have to be sexual touching. Depends on who it is touching you and what kind of touching it is, but most touching can be very nice.
2006-08-29 19:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is certainly no problem with being affectionate with close friends and family. Some people aren't as affectionate as you, however, and can become very uncomfortable with too much physical contact. It's ok with people you know very well though. Also, don't rush into too much physical contact. (Like kissing.) Make sure you are completely ready for stuff like that.
2006-08-29 19:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by willdagger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like that stuff too. I enjoy PDA in relationships but at the same time I'm not clingy. I learn to give space to the guy and for him to do the same. But I love affection and affectionate guys.
2006-08-29 18:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with sharing innocent physical contact.
It only depends on from whom.... u know ur own limits and if it ever feels 'not-right' then draw back and let the other know.
And girl! Kissing is nice too... when ur in love its better!
2006-08-29 19:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Erkan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Needing and enjoying being touched is a basic human need. It's completely natural. As a girl, however, you need to know where to draw appropriate boundaries about who touches you and how.
2006-08-29 19:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to think than it would even be considered bad by anyone. Humans like being touched. Enjoy it. Give in to your senses and relished the pleasure they can afford you.
2006-08-29 19:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Gin Martini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like affection and there is nothing wrong with that. some people love to be touched and others hate it so it's up to you. but it's not bad if u like it. i love it. And kissing is fun, trust me
2006-08-29 18:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just a "touchy feely" kind of person!!!! That's great , but not everyone likes to be touched so watch for the "signs".
2006-08-29 19:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you hon? you sound like a lil kid who loves getting piggy back rides. and no its not bad. its actually kinda nice. shows they care. just wait till ya get to kissing. now THATS not harmless. but its a very nice feeling.
good luck.
2006-08-29 19:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋