I told my friend a guy to spy on my boyfriend...and my friend asked him...did he has a girlfriend or not..he said that he has a girlfriend from Indonesia...he always tell the truth to me...but I dont know why I have curious feeling about that...he said that he is going to come to visit me when he has enough money...do you believe that?....and one more thing..if he come back from other state or country,I always ask this question to him...so did you find any girlfriend there? he always answer...what for I looked for a girlfriend if I already have....so do u guys think he told me the truth....????
2006-08-29 11:32:28 · 11 answers · asked by naomi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just TRUST him....
2006-08-29 11:46:20 · answer #1 · answered by Pisce-Pegasus 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eh', it sounds like this is doomed. I mean, him telling the truth or not aside, where is this really going with you not ever trusting him? The fact that it's long distance just makes it all that much worse. You constantly question him and have people spy on him though? He may very well be cheating on you, but why is it that you think he is? What has he done, or not done, to make you think that? If there's no 'real' good reason and you just think that because you are the type of person that will always be questioning everything your partner does, then good luck to HIM as he will need it.
2006-08-29 11:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know only one person knows that answer and that is him. Believe me when you have a gut feeling its usually true. I didn't want to believe mines cheated on me with my sisters best friend. Until I did some investigating of my own. No one believed me before I had proof. They thought I lost my mind because the two of them didn't talk or anything. It was their body language that set it off. So trust you gut instinct
2006-08-29 11:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by h_ingle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's kind of hard to tell since i don't have all of the details but if you have to second guess yourself about being with him then you shouldn't be with that person. Ask yourself these questions and answer them honestly. Do you feel like he's calling you like he should? do he seem to have more feelings and respect for you with the distance in the R-ship? do you feel like things are ok? what would you do if you was in his shoes living so far away? But most important do you trust him?/ around other females when your not around him?
2006-08-29 11:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply because you feel the need to ask you are in an unhealthy relationship.
Get out and find yourself a better boyfriend. One you can trust.
2006-08-29 11:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by lumos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have a healthy relationship without trust. Stop being insecure and whiny. People are turned off by that and you will drive him away if you keep it up.
2006-08-29 11:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know- dating online is something that I wouldn't do- you never know who you're talking to, It's hard to tell if someone is lying over the internet.
2006-08-29 11:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, do you beleive in your boyfriend? if you don't when u talk to him mention things like how special you are to have someone like him because he don't lie to you or things like you have this friend and her bf lies to her all the time and how you are happy you are not in her place and stuff like that my email id is butterflybaby_tendertouch@yahoo.com feel free to email me anytime!
2006-08-29 11:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by subrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh
2006-08-29 11:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha. if you have self respect. just let him be. find someone who respects you. :)
2006-08-29 11:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋