My boyfriend always lets me pay for dinner He may pay every blue moon, but he naever offers to pay or take me out. WE have been togethr for 3 years. We live together, he and I split the rent. You think I just created a monster by always paying for stuff?
2006-08-29 11:31:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes girl you did. His azz is selfish he realizes you are always payin he's an azz he cares about himself. Yuck!
2006-08-29 11:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah as a gentlemen the guy should always pay, for a women it is just nice to ask to pay but as a man we should never ever accept your money unless it is just for you. Or if we don't have money then that might be the only time we would accept it but most of us would just say no thank you and wait until we get home. So my advice stop paying if needed split the check, or just ask why don't you pay for me
2006-08-29 11:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Really if he appreciates you he should offer to pay for dinner.It's just the way it should be.If you tried to change it now would there be a big fuss? Is he being stingy in any other ways? I do think you let it go for too long. I hope you're not in one of those Tommy Lee type relationships where the girl thinks she deserves abuse.....good luck to you..bye now
2006-08-29 12:22:02 · answer #3 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The things you do early in the relationship become habits later on. To change these habits, you have to talk openly and honestly together and agree on the new arrangement. It also helps to understand why you started out that way to begin with, and what's different now.
2006-08-29 11:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Baxter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him to stop being a cheapass and pay for the next three years of dinner.
2006-08-29 11:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you shouldn't have paid for him since day one. I'm all for modern women who want to pay some of time, but he has used you. You need to get him to pay more or drop him!
2006-08-29 11:40:53 · answer #6 · answered by wilierthanu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt say youve created a monster, but now he will probably expect you to pay for things he wants all the time, you shouldnt keep paying for him because he might ake advantage of it.
2006-08-29 11:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by carl_nozza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's called equal rights, see we got to pay the last 400 years now it's the girls turn. believe me equal rights means takinging good with the bad. you wanna vote and work, then you gotta pay. in exchange we pretend to listen to you when you're talking.
2006-08-29 11:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by SHARKIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, but just ask him to pay for dinner sometimes.
2006-08-29 11:39:45 · answer #9 · answered by mslittlequeenb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't create him that's just how he is. Bring home food for yourself a couple of times and he should get the hint.
2006-08-29 11:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by jdfasu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋