My live in boyfiend had a thing w/ someone very close to me .I thaught it was over . But I was in disbelife to find out there is still feelings involved. Why can't I have the true love I have been searching for my whole 33 years of life ?
2006-08-29 11:29:45 · 15 answers · asked by codysunfinishedlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is not an destination. It is not a place one makes a reservation to visit. Love is a choice. It is the willingness to be responsible for someone else's emotions. Choose to love your self and be responsible for your own emotions. Love is not something you give but something you share. Find someone worth sharing it with but first explore yourself and recognize that love is in you not anywhere else. The search ends in the mirror!
Good Luck
Phantom
2006-08-29 11:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by phantom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do trust that there is actual love accessible and that i trust that i'm in it. yet (there is continuously a seize) you want to believe your self and your love sufficient to enable your preserve down and extremely be your self. even as that takes position who're extremely are would marvel you. For me actual love is compared to contained in the flicks or perhaps as my fiance brings living house champagne and goodies on Valentine's day. actual love is even as i'm ill and he's contained in the lavatory with me rubbing my back and conserving my hair, when we are both extremely busy and we are going to do dishes mutually purely which will get a danger to talk, and that he relied on me sufficient to inquire from me to marry him with out a hoop and that i relied on him sufficient to say certain. all and dissimilar is diverse, yet i extremely do not imagine that action picture actual love is the same as actual existence actual love.
2016-12-05 22:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the answer to this question, please, please, PLEASE let me know.
I am 49, been married twice (first one didn't like sex, second was a closet alcoholic) and just was dumped, after 5 years together, by a man that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. He found a younger woman...she's mid thirties, he is 56.
I have no idea where to find a decent loving kind man. I am not asking for much....at least I don't think so. I own my own home, and have a great job, so I am not looking for someone to take care of me. I just want someone to love me and share our lives with each other.
I am sorry to tell you that it does not get better as you get older...it just gets more difficult.
2006-08-29 11:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop searching so hard, it'll happen when it's right. Once you get to your thirties and have been "single" you tend to be more particular about the things you want in a mate (it's the whole live and learn thing). Be happy with yourself and your life and he will come along.
2006-08-29 11:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by swayed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sarah i ask myself the same thing. Am 39 and all the singles have been hurt and are scared at my age. I think I'm going to end up one of those people found dead in their flat two weeks later. Oh how depressing but i keep my hope
2006-08-29 11:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by thecharleslloyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u have to wait for true love to come .. u cant expect it come anytime u wish!! nyway all u have to do is get over ur old boyfriend, and try to go out with ur friends.. friends r the best..
2006-08-29 11:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
love does not mean true or false. the intensity of the feeling makes us happy only. the deeper the feeling the happier the affection that we need in our life time.
2006-08-29 11:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never over with a guy who cheats so move on and find someone with integrity.
2006-08-29 11:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen you have to know how yo treat a man right give him all the things he require- love romance honesty trust comfort health beauyy and a little spice in your sex
2006-08-29 11:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by sheka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking in the wrong places. When you bring a third party into your relationship- It almost never works.
2006-08-29 11:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋