Well if you mean, they're telling you they love you but really you don't know the person, tell them that they cannot possibly love you since they don't know you, and you cannot possibly love them since you don't know them.
If it's someone you've been with a long time, just sit them down. Say, "You know, I really do care about you, but I just don't know how I feel about you anymore. I'm feeling a distance between us and I don't feel emotionally connected to you anymore. I can't see how this is going to work out."
If it's someone you are dating and want to continue to date, but you just don't love them yet, say, "I really care about you and I want to keep getting to know you. I don't feel I'm at a stage where I can say I love you because I don't feel I know you as well as I would like to."
Hope this helps!
2006-08-29 11:28:16
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answered by Elizabeth 2
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Don't tell them you don't love them, just tell them I want to end this relationship because I need more freedom and I am not having the feelings I should have for you that you deserve.
2006-08-29 18:27:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Sit them down and just tell them in a nice way that you just don't feel the way they feel about you. Do expect the person to be upset.
2006-08-29 18:24:44
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answered by Moni 2
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I think it should be easy. I don't know why you would need to be vulgar.
Just come out and tell them. Be simple and honest and understand that whatever great way you come up with to tell them, there is probably no way to do it w/out hurting his/her feelings. Just be as sweet as possible.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 18:25:52
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answered by lorgurus 4
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Just tell them that your feelings are not the same as their feelings for you.
2006-08-29 18:26:41
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answered by Anonymous
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dont answer calls from them or make calls to them.....separation works the best
2006-08-29 18:25:02
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answered by Ricknows 5
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Just tell them that you don't love them.
2006-08-29 18:24:22
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answered by mightymight 5
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it depends.. you do you live with them? do you still have sexual relations with them? (STOP THAT) start backing away from them.. slowly or just come right out and tell them..
2006-08-29 18:29:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Sing sweetly : ease on down, ease on down the road....
2006-08-29 18:25:23
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answered by Angela 7
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say you have herpies. Unless you think that is vulgar.
2006-08-29 18:24:34
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answered by Anonymous
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