Why do some guys play hard to get, when it is VERY obvious to you and EVERYONE else that he wants you, because you are very attractive and a good catch, and all his friends wish you wanted them too. You catch him glancing (trying not to stare) at u and other people see it too. He tries to stand near u when u at the club, without seeming to push up on you. It's like everyone has to approach him first (except his homeboys). He's kinda shy. But he knows you want him too, so why wont he get up on it? He's already told u that he finds you very attractive and talks about you to his friends. So why why is he waiting so long to get it on! :-)
I could see if he wasnt interested, but its obvious he is very much so why is he so damn shy?
2006-08-29 11:19:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to the one that said he may be turned off cause i think i'm so hot: this is so not true. am i wrong to know that i'm a good catch? and of course i can write that here, but it doesnt mean i act like that daily. there is nothing wrong with confidence
2006-08-29 11:29:54 · update #1
:) just think about it this way. a boyfriend would even do the same thing. :) playing hard to get as they call it. well... that's life. if there's no love... insecurity is greater. :)
2006-08-29 11:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same, like some girls plays hard to get. It is part of the game baby.
2006-08-29 11:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys play hard to get because that's when a girl really shows she likes him. Girls always go for the laid back, nonchalant, type.
2006-08-29 11:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by mslittlequeenb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insecure! But how old are you two? You mention club. YES what club, athletic or bar?
2006-08-29 11:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the fact that you think you're so hot is the part that turns him off.
2006-08-29 11:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he doesn't know for sure if you're into him. make the first move to prove to him that you have the same feelings. from then on it should escalate into whatever you two make it to be.
2006-08-29 11:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by C-Baby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is trying too see how really interested you are in him to see if he is worth the shot
2006-08-29 11:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by sheka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him talk to him first.and if you see him with someone beet the hell out of her.
2006-08-29 11:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait on him? Get up on him
2006-08-29 11:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋