I recieved a letter from a female that's sleeping with my man. She gave a full description of his body to me and she also described our bedroom but he's saying that nothing happened between them. I would appreciate any response.
2006-08-29 11:07:57 · 26 answers · asked by MS T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would kick his lying butt out. If he did it once he will do it again
2006-08-29 11:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by NETTA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume anything! I'm not protecting your "man" but, some women do crazy things to get what they want. O.k so she described his body how? Were they exact things about his body that no other man can have? So she described your bedroom how? Maybe she is a girl from his work and she overheard him saying something about your bedroom or there was a picture. Look think what you will but if you end up leaving she won and she is going to move right in on the target and get exactly what she wants! Think about it!!
2006-08-29 18:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Alucard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..If she can describe his body and our bedroom, you know something has happened, regardless of what he is trying to convince you. Do you know this woman? How did she get your address? I am sure you are feeling an assortment of emotions, (anger, betrayal, distrust) but you need to keep a clear head about what you are going to do next and try to avoid listening to him instead of your common sense or heart because despite what you want to believe (it didnt happen) deep down inside you know the truth since you have the letter and I am sure have read it more than once. If nothing more you know you are going to have to make some hard decisions. Do you think you will be able to sleep next to him knowing he may have possibly been in your bed with another woman? Can you forgive him? Regardless of what choice you make (to leave or stay) your relationship will never be the same because trust was violated. No one can tell you what to do because no one knows your history with this man or what you may have been through in the past. One thing for certain, he did not honor or respect your or his relationship with you and that will forever be the hardest thing to forgive even if you choose to forgive. I wish you the best..I know this is hard for you. Be strong and stay focused. (on you)
2006-08-29 18:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is tough. Actually, there has been people who stalk others and send letters like this to break up a relationship. How would this woman know your bedroom in full description, how would she know what his body looks like. Did she have description of you know. Think really hard about this. She have information that only you should know?
2006-08-29 18:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this may be a little hard to swallow.... but it really sounds to me like somethings happened between them... I could be wrong though and heres how you can figure out if I am...
See if maybe shes just a jelous ex
Ask her how she knows all of that stuff about him and your house.
Also ask him that if nothing happened how would she know about his body and the bedroom.
I just want to say that if he has cheated on you that really isn't fair. You deserve better than that and you should make sure he knows it regardless of if he cheated or not. Good Luck with this!!! I'm sure it's very hard to deal with. I know you'll figure something out.
2006-08-29 18:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jillian D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all the things this female is saying is true then there shouldn't be any doubt about letting him go, unless there is a deep feeling for the guy and then you just have to work things out, then from there see where your feelings are placed for him and then you will know if he's a keeper or toss him out.
2006-08-29 18:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First he needs to be truthful with you because no one will know the exact details of his body and your bedroom!!!!! , if there was nothing going on. If you just want to turn a blind eye to it then that is your problem. It will keep on happening if you let him. You have to be strong and face the facts.
2006-08-29 18:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe your husband. If he is innocent, he will appreciate it. If he isn't, he's been warned and knows you will be watching him. Totally drop it and never bring it up in a fight. Let it go.
The bonus is that the woman is trying to cause trouble in your marriage for whatever reason and when you don't react, you will be taking the wind right out of her sails.
Check and checkmate.
2006-08-29 18:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel that hes cheating on u or u get something like this again then leave him and find yourself a new man. He will tell u that nothing happened but it doesnt mean that hes being honest.
2006-08-29 18:11:28 · answer #9 · answered by ..;..;.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she described everything in detail then he gots to go.. No use having no man thats going to be cheating and lying..Kick him to the curb.. Good luck
2006-08-30 03:23:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sexxy Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.....write her back asking her why is she telling you this? did he dump her? obviously she is only telling you to get back at him for something whether or not your husband actually had sex with her. maybe he turned down her advances and she got mad. she could have gotten a description a million different ways.
Talk to your husband without attacking him. Tell him to take care of this woman or you will take care of him.
2006-08-29 18:18:48 · answer #11 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋