I think I came too strong to a girl I like, asking her out all of a sudden, txting her all the time, asking her out a lot, and constantly bugging her. I do like her a lot and she seemed really interested at first but lately she hasn't been responding much to my text messages and makes reasons not to go out with me. I really like her so much that I would do anything to get her interested again. What do I do? I want to txt her but what should I say? Help me.
2006-08-29 10:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey buddy, you're scaring her. LOL. The more possessive and hmm.. 'obsessed' you act around her, the more freaked out she'll be and it'll lessen the feeling of like towards you. Instead of texting her constantly, talk to her on the phone or talk in person. Texting gets annoying after a while, it's cute every now and then. This girl probably does still like you, but the obsessiveness has got to stop for her and your sake. Loosen up, and stop texting her. That way, she's going to start wondering what's up with you and she'll probably get interested again.
Try not to contact her for a lil, to let her get back to normal. She'll totally thank you for this.
Good luck!
2006-08-29 10:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should call her one last time and tell her that you're very sorry for being an annoyance and that you'll stop. Then she'll either agree with you and say she needed space or she'll deny being annoyed. Then, when you stop talking to her so much, she'll realize if she likes you or not. I don't think you can control whether she will feel for you again but usually a girl will miss something that used to be a part of her day. And if she doesnt end up calling you after that you could call her once every 2 weeks or so..only one call every 2 weeks so that shows you can give her space and at the same time still keep in touch. Dont be a jerk and walk out of her life all together. Thats my opinion. goodluck =)
2006-08-29 11:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by umm hi<333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some space... just slow it down.. as simple as that.. talk to her one on one.. tell her that you've been getting a bad vibe from her.. and ask how she feels, tell her if she is still interested in you..
2006-08-29 10:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send her one last txt message saying, "I am sorry. I just really like you and i have never felt about a women before. Can you forgive me? Pretty please?"
2006-08-29 10:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by - Eiren - 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋