What do you do when the only guy you have ever loved isn't with you any more but he is with someone else?

Question

Um I have dated this boy for like 2 months i no it might not be long but we was talking before that and i have never felt a feeling like this for a boy in my life and i just dont no what to do now that i cant have what i want..... and i usually get what i want but i guess I dont this time... =(

Answer 1

If this is the first time that you didn't get what you wanted, you are either very young or very rich. I have two points of advice.

1. Get used to disappoinment.

2. Get over him.

Answer 2

I know this isn't exactly going to be reassuring, but if he's with someone else, you have to let him go. It'll be hard, but I promise you can do it. And the best thing to do is to find another guy! He'll keep your mind off the guy you lost, and he may not measure up to the guy you lost, but it'll help your pain. And I know love will come knocking on your door again when you least expect it, trust me! Just remember your good qualities, all of the things you're good at, and all of the people in your life who care a lot about you. Chocolate (and lots of it!) helps, too. Once you feel good about yourself, the other guy will see it too and realize all that he's lost. He'll feel like an idiot for losing you.

Answer 3

I think that maybe you should talk to him about it and see what he thinks. Im sure that he will not be with this other girl forever. Try to find someone else i was in that spot too once. But now i found someone that i really love and have been with him for 9 months almost. Before that i went with a guy for almost 3 months too and one for almost a year on and off. You still might have feelings for him but try to think about something else.

Answer 4

Just because you feel something you can't explain does not mean that something is love. Love is not a feeling though it inspires them all, love is not an emotion though they are affected the most. Love is a choice to be WILLINGLY RESPONSIBLE for SOMEONE ELSE'S emotions. The first thing you should do is respect yourself enough to critique yourself. Secondly, accept the fact that the person of interest has made their choice and know that love is not something you give but something you share and finally find someone deserving enough to share it with. Good Luck

Phantom

Answer 5

ur spoiled, and don't like the idea that you can't have everything U want.
2 months is no time, talking or walking.
You never loved this guy, you lusted after him, and thought he was good looking, but you never had an emotional bond with him.
get over it; move on. here are bigger fish to fry!

Answer 6

You have your whole life to live sweetie . Go back out there and find someone else . Don't waist any more time on this guy . That may sound harsh but You will be better off .

Answer 7

Cry...breathe and then get busy. When you give your self time you will feel the pain, reliving everthing you might have done different, everything you missed that would have told you he was on his way out.

Getting busy pretty soon you forget to worry about it and might even meet his better replacement. Good luck.

Answer 8

Cry in the shower then hang out with your girlfriends. And maybe ask them if they now any boys you'll like. In other words, move on with your life. Your still to young to waste your life on that creep.

Answer 9

First off I am assuming you are young. Get over him and move on. I promise there will be several more. You are too young to waste your time on him or being upset. Showing him he is not worth your time will have him running back along w/ alot more.

Answer 10

You just have to move on i know its hard but sijnce hes with someone else you have to try to face the fact that its really over.Just move on doesnt seem like hes worried about it i know it hurts and i dont mean to hurt you either its just the truth..