Would you fall for a guy/girl that cheated on you? (go out with him/her again)?

Answer 1

I had been dating my ex-husband for 1 year when he cheated on me. Like a fool, I forgave him and eventually married him. We divorced in 2000 because he cheated AGAIN!!

Very rarely do men change.

Answer 2

Nope, its a sign of their character, immaturity, poor impulse control, lack of self control and/or self discipline and shows that they have no respect for the feelings of the person they are involved with...if I were to make a list of the kind of person I wanted to be with none of those things would be on it so what would be the point? These things make up WHO they are, its not about a situation or another person it is them, its what they are. You can't fault a giraffe for having a long neck, its just the way the giraffe is made. This is the same thing, he could choose not to do it but obviously has proven that he won't. Why fool yourself? Why delude yourself in to seeing something other than what that person is? Women get themselves in to so many bad relationships by denying what they see and focusing on their idea of what they want someone to be. What you believe is someones actions, not their words. The best way to figure out what someone will do in the future is by looking at what they have done in the past. When talking relationships you must always consider the big picture, not the right now and the short term. Why take the chance, there are just too many fish in the sea to bother with that crap!If they do it to you once, shame on them, if you stick around and they do it to you again you have nobody to blame but yourself, they clearly demonstrated who they are and you chose to ignore it thereby earning whatever pain (or disease)you get.

Answer 3

Yeah, I think I would. The past is history, what's done is done. We could still go out, but I don't know about the falling for her part. It would create a distant feel for me and unless something major happens, I would always feel that way. But there's nothing wrong with giving someone another chance, just accept your decision for better(hopefully) or worse.

Answer 4

most likely no.....the only way would be if I knew I did something really bad to precipitate the situation.....and even if that was the case, the chances would be slim to none that I'd get back with her....because when you get down to it, there is no legitamite excuse for cheating.......you could always leave the relationship before doing further damage.

Answer 5

Yes. But it just depends on the situation. Second chances can eventually prove to be an opportunity for the both of us.

Answer 6

Never go back. They will cheat on you again. If you want to hook up for random sex- that's different because you'll both know what you're there for. Never trust them, never have unprotected sex with them again.

Answer 7

As the saying goes. "If they do it to you once, they will do it to you again". But sometimes, people have matured, and grown up some, and have learned from their mistakes. Then if you think that is the case, you can give it a try.

Answer 8

Well if you really love them maybe you will give them a second chance but i think that if they are a cheater then they will aways be a cheater. But personally if it was me i would tell them to get lost and move on.

Answer 9

Nope don't do it.. If he cheated once then he'll do it again.. You can find someone better

Answer 10

I wouldn't, but when I was a youngster probably would, it happens everyday, don't feel bad you can't help it, specially when you think little of yourself