Women, Mature answers only please.?

Question

If you are interested in a guy who is shy, will you make the first move? If not why? What would you do to let him know you are interested?

Answer 1

luzr lose the name luzer if you say it so many time then you might actually start to believe that & i dont talk to loser anyway your a shy guy thats a beautiful personality trate remember that. yes i would make the first move it might not be the oveist move like i want to go out with you, more unnotiable move like always saying hi or looking at you & sometimes smilling look for these little sign most women are just as shy to, other women are raised to let the man shy or not come to them first. give your self a chance then give her a chance to answer yes or no put youself first

Answer 2

I would make the first move if the guy is shy, because I doubt if he would make the first move if he is shy. Or I would kind of like hint to the guy that I am interested in him by coming on to him to see if he would get the hint to try to get a response out of him.

Answer 3

I would try to let him know that I am interested, but if he didn't make the first move, I would, but I think I would have to get him to come out of his shell, at least with me, or the relationship wouldn't work. One person can't be made to make all the descisions and all of that, I would expect that he would carry his weight. However, if that was not a problem with me, I wouldn't be mad if he was still shy around others.

Answer 4

I am shy, I would not make the first move, If I was interested, I guess I would go to the places, he hangs out, or just speak, make small conversation, and see where it goes for their.

Answer 5

My now husband is shy, and 7 years ago, I had to ask him out. I just approached him at work (where we met) and started to chat, and asked him if he wanted to get together for a drink sometime. If a woman wants to get to know you bad enough, she'll ask you out. But the same goes for you. Even though you're shy, you should still try to show someone that you're interested too.

Answer 6

Stop complaining and asking for hope, u have to get over your shyness, otherwise even if she does the first move, she ll get bored of you, cause u have no confidence at all. Girls want a man, not a wuss. Stand straight, get a low tone voice and a straigh face and show her what a man is.

Answer 7

Shy guys are the best, If your hot I would totally make the first move!!!

Answer 8

I am a flirt so yes I would make the first move but I would not let it be as obvious that that is what I am doing. I would smile and laugh and make sure I am around but I would not be cras.

Answer 9

of course i would not just approach him. i'm a shy person, and i wouldn't like it if some1 asked me out like that. i want to get to know him first, then get him to like me, and see if he is comfortable to talk to me like family, then i pass out love hints, and then when he starts to get it, pop the question. But don't pop it right in his face. Email him, or talk on the phone or something. But just do the important thing. Make sure he is interested in u.

Answer 10

i would definitely make the first move, if i knew the guy was shy. i would think that is cute. but if there is a relationship built after that, i would always think that i would have to initiate everything, and we would never be able to do anything if i didnt say it or think of it.i would try to bring him out his shell.