I have just had an abortion the day before yesterday, and me and my new boyfriend really want to do it. Is it too soon or can I start having sex already? If it helps, I'm 15 years old, weigh 105 pounds, and I'm in good health.
2006-08-29 10:29:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should you have sex, you just killed a child..................so what if you're 15 you could have given your baby up to adoption. An abortion is the worst thing in the world. Don't even have sex, cause when you sit down and think about it, you'll feel bad............................................
2006-08-29 10:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tomato 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
a termination is a very intrusive procedure and even though you might feel ok there is still some healing that needs to happen on the inside of your body and you need to be aware that your body has had a complete clean out so the chances of you falling pregnant again are fairly high if your not protected.
i think you need to give it some time emotionally and physically before you have sex again, even a week would be better.
it sounds like your not real upset about the abortion which makes me think that emotionally you will be ok, but i hope you never have to have it done again, dont use it as a contraceptive it really isnt good for you.
im sad for you that you have had to do this at age 15, i was 26 when i had to have one and it wasnt a pleasant experience.
please learn from your mistakes and be more carefull.
good luck.
2006-08-29 17:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by shandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you choose to have sex, make sure to use protection so you don't have to go through that again. And if you were no more than 3 months along when you got the abortion, you can have sex after a week.
2006-09-01 05:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! You just had an abortion and are thinking about having sex again!!!! I couldn't if I did that. I guess I would say wait until your body heals which I kno is a lot more than a couple of days, try waiting a good month. Honey one word of advice for the future: CONDOM!!!!
2006-08-29 17:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop having sex all the time. Then u wouldnt have to have worried about that question. If you would be like a normal 15 year old you should not even be thinking about sex. That is sad you should have just had the baby and raised it yourself. Thats cruel.
2006-08-29 17:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by mat 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So at 15 you just had an abortion 2 days ago and your ready to be a fool again ?? Are you going to be one of those girls who gets an abortion like she changes her underwear ??
2006-08-29 17:37:16 · answer #6 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well considering your only 15 you need your *** beat but honestly it takes 6 weeks after a delivery to have sex so probaly 6-8 weeks if u have sex now youwill become pregnant again and having abortions can cause you to never be able to have kids and if your to young to be a mom then honey your to young to e having sex
2006-08-29 17:37:21 · answer #7 · answered by shyshy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should wait about 2weeks the body is passing to cleans its self did you know that having unprotected sex while bleeding can cause infection for you & your boyfriend you dont want that, than you will have to wait even longer your 15 and you are going to do what you want cool just try to do the right thing this time ok
2006-08-29 18:56:08 · answer #8 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is sad that you had an abortion and think nothing of it. A. your 15 stop having sex
B. if you are going to have sex please protect yourself
I cant believe you are acting like an abortion is no big deal and that you are over it. Sad sad sad : (
2006-08-29 17:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by veggiemama 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO you need to wait.... slow down.. your only 15yr old and already had an abortion. relax!! sex can wait.
2006-08-29 17:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋