i went to see a movie with another friend, she probably didn't mean it... if she would of bought a lottery ticket ,bingo!!! she didn't know, i've been ill awaiting results... i got the news that i have an inoperable flap in my right lung my left one enlarged. she is not aware and i don't want to tell anyone i know... i want to live, so i need good vibes,what would you do?
2006-08-29 10:22:07 · 4 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
tell her the truth, tell her you need her now more than ever and that you were a little set back by her comment considering what you are now experiencing. Forgive her, and allow her to continue being a good friend, she may very well be able to help you through this. 20 years of friendship is a long time. Sounds like a heart to heart talk is coming on. be frank and be forgiving. :)
Blessing, J.
2006-08-29 11:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that she is the one with the attitude problem, and what she said has nothing to do with you, it is all to do with her.
Perhaps ask her what is going on with her and how much she hurt you by saying that, and then, if you feel comfortable, tell her what is going on with you.
Beyond that you can't really do much else about the relationship, it is her hand from that point on.
You are right that good vibes are important, listen to motivational tapes, watch comedies, be sure you remain as active as you can be.
Be well my friend,
2006-08-29 18:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by Pamela J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She clearly isn't a good friend and you are better off without the negative energy she sends.
Take care.
2006-08-29 17:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be clear what u wanna say and abt living well if u wanna live dnt thnk abt any one else xcept the doctor.
2006-08-29 17:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by tanishqa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋