ENJOY
but its not healthy, i think
2006-08-29 10:19:51
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answered by gw123456 3
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You have to fight the urge. As you know, it's exceedingly addictive. It tattoos nasty images on your mind - they'll never go away. It alters your perception of women in general - in the most negative way possible, by making them into things, objects. There comes a time when whatever little porn you get is never enough, not satisfying, and always leaves you hollow, never sated. You look for more, for more intense, for worse, for total kicks, but it's never enough. You'll need more. It takes over your life, and you'll begin seeking the kinds of kicks that turn you on in print, in your real life with your real-life partner.
You have to fight it. You have to turn away from it, and avoid occasions of temptation. Buy yourself an internet filter, like Cybersitter for instance (go to www.dads.org; they point you to several resources.) Join a 12-step program, where you'll be with like-minded people who fight everyday to overcome their addiction. Get informed. Read "Pornified: How Pornography Is Transforming Our Lives, Our Relationships, and Our Families (Times Books, 2005)" by Pamela Paul on Agape Press. Seek help - it's very difficult to do alone. I recommend, if you're currently seeing someone, to open up to that person about your addiction, and ask for her help. The best way to see immediate results is through accountability. Some (if not most) Internet filters, have a built-in feature that sends daily emails to your accountability partner, revealing every webpage you've seen, every click of your mouse.
Mostly - pray. Be realistic about the challenges this represents, and listen to your heart. You've come as far as to ask the question on Yahoo - your conscience is talking to you: your heart knows this isn't right. Don't let it or yourself down. Take action now - seek the help you need to overcome this and change your life right now.
2006-08-29 10:31:36
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answered by rocken_heimer 2
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Sex is more fun when it is with an actual living breathing person.
2006-08-29 10:23:12
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answered by happyhead7 1
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do what you got to do. I bet you'll find someone to share it with you too!! Live life to the fullest even if it includes lots of sex and lots of porn
2006-08-29 10:20:44
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answered by madamoiselle_2 2
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You just don't have control over your sexual organs. Too bad. If you can get control over them, you could be a good lover and actually will have a better sex life.
2006-08-29 10:20:20
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answered by Tones 6
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Have fun and watch porn and masturbate the neighbors pet tiger.
2006-08-29 10:20:11
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answered by ANGEL 2
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Have some fun - watch porn.
Good times for you!
2006-08-29 10:20:09
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answered by ? 6
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have fun and watch porn
2006-08-29 10:20:39
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answered by Anonymous
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have fun and watch porn
2006-08-29 10:20:12
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answered by ssgtusmc3013 6
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Find a girl that is 18 years or older that likes your interests. Maybe you'll find to make her your girlfriend :)
2006-08-29 10:20:36
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answered by blu2u1982 2
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Pray for forgiveness
2006-08-29 10:32:48
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answered by Keith C 1
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